Don't Let Expectation Die with James B. Johnson

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Welcome to a Biblical Perspective Podcast where God's point of view matters.

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I'm your host, Prophet CT Johnson.

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This podcast is designed to expand you beyond the mind's cultural and theological limitations

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about the Bible and what it teaches.

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Prepare for the challenge of becoming a critical thinker, analyzing life from God's perspective.

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Boldly and unapologetically, I'll address the ills and issues of our day using scripture

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as the frame of reference.

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Get ready to empower your thinking and change your life.

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Now let's hear what God has to say.

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Well hello family.

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Welcome to another episode of a Biblical Perspective Podcast.

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I'm your host, Prophet CT Johnson, excited about today's podcast, excited about today's

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show.

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I have a very special guest, one that I know you're going to enjoy.

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You're going to be empowered and enlightened by his contribution to our conversation on

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today.

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Very special person to me.

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I've known him all of his life, all of his earthly existence.

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I've known him and so I'm going to introduce him momentarily and you want to ensure that

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you are staying put and you stay tuned to today's episode because we're going to have

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a powerful time with this guest.

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As we discuss the subject of expectation, we're going to discuss it from a position

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and a perspective that you probably haven't heard before.

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So again, you are going to want to make sure that you don't miss the entirety of today's

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podcast as we discuss with this guest the subject of expectation.

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But before we bring him on, I want to encourage you to go to my website, ctjohnson.org and

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pick up your copy of my latest book, Empower Your Thinking, volume one.

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It's going to literally empower your thinking.

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Quotes to shift consciousness, provoke thought, and increase understanding.

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This book is not your common, your usual book of quotes, but it is an interactive book and

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the quotes are designed to take you beyond the superficial as it pertains to how you

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see yourself and even more importantly, how God sees you.

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So I want to encourage you to go to ctjohnson.org and pick up your copy, Empower Your Thinking,

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volume one.

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Quotes to shift consciousness, provoke thought, and increase understanding.

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And also connect with me on social media, Facebook, and Instagram at cterelljohnson.

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That's c-t-e-r-r-i-l-l.

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Johnson, I would love to interact and connect with you there on social media, Facebook,

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and Instagram, cterelljohnson.

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All right.

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Let's bring my guest on as I shared with you briefly just a moment ago.

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This young man, I've known all of my life and we have had wonderful times together.

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We've had some turbulent times together, but nonetheless, we are yet together and this

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young man is none other than my youngest brother, James Brandon Johnson.

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I'm going to give you his whole government name, James Brandon Johnson, and I am so honored

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that he is with me on today's podcast and we're going to have a powerful, powerful time

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and we're going to share, allow you rather to enter into a personal conversation that

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he and I had just earlier this week.

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Just earlier this week, we had a powerful conversation that provoked the idea to bring

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him on the podcast and have this conversation again with you all listening and benefiting

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from it.

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So without further ado, I'm going to bring my baby, my biological.

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This is my biological baby brother, my mother gave birth to both of us as well as our older

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brother.

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There's an older brother, Arthur.

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There's me and then there is James.

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And so James, say hello to our audience and we're going to jump into the conversation

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that we had just a few days ago.

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I'm glad that you're with me, baby brother.

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Yes sir, thank you for having me and definitely looking forward to continuing our conversation

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and above all else, I pray that it would be impactful, empowering and encouraging to others

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as well.

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Absolutely.

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I know that it will be.

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So I want to preface our conversation.

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Of course, this is a biblical perspective podcast, so everything that we discuss, all

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of our topics that we address, we address them from a biblical perspective.

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And so of course, I want to preface our talk, our discussion today out of Jeremiah 17 and

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seven and again, I told you all at the beginning of the show, you're going to hear us discuss,

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dialogue, even teach on the subject of expectation from a perspective that may not be familiar

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to you.

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However, it's going to bless and empower your life.

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But Jeremiah 17 and seven, it says blessed is the man that trusted in the Lord and whose

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hope the Lord is.

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Now as I was preparing for our discussion today and I shared with my brother a moment

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ago before we began the podcast and that is hope expectation is found in the scriptures.

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Obviously what I just read to you in Jeremiah 17 and seven, it says the latter portion and

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whose hope the Lord is blessed is the man that trusted in the Lord and whose hope or

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whose expectation is in the Lord.

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And one of the most common mistakes that we make as it pertains to our hope and our expectation

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is that we place it in everyone else, everything else other than God and his standards, his

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way, his laws.

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And that's one of the main reasons why many people are disappointed as it pertains to

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their hope and or the expectation they're let down because they hoped they expected

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from persons from an organization that's flawed.

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That probably not on purpose, let them down, disappointed them, but you will never ever

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have to worry about your hope, perishing your expectations, being dashed when it's placed

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in God.

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And so I'm going to pause there and I'm going to throw it to you James and just allow you

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to comment on what I just shared and what I just said and then we'll move further into

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how we got to this point of wanting to have this discussion on the podcast.

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So what are your thoughts about what I just shared thus far?

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James Dixon You know, as I ponder that scripture, it comes

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to mind that hope or expectation is really something that's predicated upon relationship.

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I think that it is one thing to be saved or to receive the gift of salvation.

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It's another to establish, maintain a relationship with Christ.

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In the absence of relationship, it becomes complicated to have such great expectations

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of our Lord and Savior.

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If you don't know Him, you can't truly trust Him, but to know Him, you can't help but trust

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Him.

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Neal Bajer That's good.

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That's good.

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Go ahead.

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Go ahead.

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That's good right there.

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Say that again.

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Repeat that last part because that was good.

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And then continue with your thought.

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James Dixon So I was just saying if you don't know Him,

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you cannot trust Him.

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But to know Him, you can't help but trust Him.

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See, I'm able to have certain expectations of you because you're my brother and I know

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you.

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If I didn't really know you, I wouldn't be able to take you at your word because I don't

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know your level of integrity.

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But we have a Savior that has mastered integrity above anyone else.

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Neal Bajer That's good.

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That's good.

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So expectation or relationship rather, relationship is the foundation of the premise, the substratum

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upon which expectation or hope is built upon.

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Is that the essence of what you just shared, the connection between relationship and expectation?

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James Dixon Certainly, I think that sums it up perfectly.

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You know, in order to have a hope or an expectation, you have to have a relationship.

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Once you have that relationship with Christ, then the stronger it is, the more you grow

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in Christ, the more you grow in your faith, the greater your expectations become.

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Neal Bajer So is it safe to say that, and this may not

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be true in every instance, but just generally speaking, is it safe to say that where we

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struggle with expectation or our expectations pertaining to certain people or even ourselves,

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is it because we fail to do due diligence in establishing a strong connection with said

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persons or people?

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Is it safe to say that most times we are disappointed where our expectation and our hope is concerned

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because we have placed it in people that we don't know that we have not spent enough time

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with as it pertains to, as you said earlier, learning or coming into the knowledge of understanding

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where they are, integral wise, whether or not they are a person that can be trusted,

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whether or not that they are a person that holds fast or holds true to their word.

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So again, I guess the question I'm asking is the result of, or rather is disappointment

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is being let down, sometimes the result of us prematurely placing our hope and expectations

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in people that we really have not taken the time to vet.

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Is that making sense?

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Neal Bajer Yeah, I think that makes perfect sense.

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I think the greatest point that you just made is spending time with someone.

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So, you know, I'm a person in my personal life, I believe that before I place any expectation

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on anyone, I spend time with that person and I observe that person under various circumstances,

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because circumstances will tend to bring out the true character of a person.

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So if you only observe someone when they're facing joyful times, you don't yet know how

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that person handles adversity, disappointment, frustration.

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And if you place all of your hope into that person, simply because you witnessed how they

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handle joyful times, well, life is not a 100% joyful experience.

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Unfortunately, in this life, trials and tribulations don't discriminate, they will come to you.

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Neal Bajer Absolutely.

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Yeah, go ahead, finish your thought.

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I'm just agreeing with you.

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Neal Bajer No, sir, that pretty much sums it up.

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You know, like I said, I agree with you.

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I think the greatest thing is where you mentioned spending time with the person and as it relates

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to our faith in Christ, our faith in God, I think that's where many go astray.

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Again, I'll repeat, it's one thing to receive the gift of salvation, but having received

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the gift of salvation does not mean that you have a relationship with God.

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Salvation is merely an introduction.

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I've been introduced to countless people, but I only have a relationship with a select

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few and having a relationship is an intentional decision and it requires investment.

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I think that many people seem to think that you accept the gift of salvation and that

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growing in God is just something that happens automatically over time.

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So we have many people that feel, well, you know, I've been in the faith for 40, 50 years.

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That doesn't mean that you have a relationship with God.

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Neal Bajer Absolutely.

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Absolutely.

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Neal Bajer Having a relationship means you've made a

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conscious decision to invest of yourself, to invest your time, your energy, your resources

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into developing that relationship and you have to spend time with him.

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Dr. Charles D. C. Cotter That's good.

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I love that point that you made in regards to salvation does not equate to having developed

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a relationship with God, having matured in your understanding of who he is and even who

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you are in relation to him.

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Salvation is the, I like how you said at the introduction, it is the beginning of relational

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development with Jesus Christ.

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Neal Bajer Exactly.

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Dr. Charles D. Cotter See, that was very, very, very powerful.

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And that's why the Bible talks to us about maturing and growing into the next dimension

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and image of Jesus Christ.

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Because unfortunately, within the church, we have labeled salvation as the end all be

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all as it pertains to once you're saved, once you give your life to Christ and you receive

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your new creation, spirit and your new heart according to Jeremiah, that's it.

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Or salvation alone brings you into a deeper, more in-depth understanding or relationship

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with Jesus Christ.

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No, there is work that is required just like with any relationship.

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You know, Jess and I, next month, September the 13th, will be 20 years that we've been

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married.

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We were married 20 years ago, September 13th, 2003, after the officiate, the person who

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officiated the wedding, once they said, I now pronounce you husband and wife, and we

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kissed and even though we had been engaged, we knew each other or courted for a year and

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a half prior to getting married somewhere in I think a year.

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But once we got married, my point is once we got married, the marriage or the ceremony,

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I should say the ceremony did not manifest a marriage or we did not in the ceremony in

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and of itself learned all that there was to learn about each other.

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It took years in order for the two to become one even though we got married in a day.

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So my point is, like you said, just because you got saved, salvation alone does not equate

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to you having strengthened, developed, matured, fortified your relationship with Jesus Christ

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because you don't know him.

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That's why church attendance is important.

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Bible study is important.

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Reading your Bible is important because reading the scriptures is how we develop and grow

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in that relationship.

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I just love that point that you brought out and that really connects with the scripture

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that I opened up with Jeremiah 17, blessed is the man, empowered is the man, the person

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who trusted in the Lord and whose hope the Lord is.

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Well, trust in God is not, it doesn't manifest by osmosis.

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Your trust and our trust with anyone that we're in relationship with, trust is developed

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over time.

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It's developed by us interacting with each other.

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It's developed through the good, the bad, the times of indifference, the times of disagreement

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and things of that nature.

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So what are your thoughts?

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You know, I think again, I would just reiterate the importance of relationship, having that

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relationship with God.

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You know, you can't trust him.

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You can't have any expectations in the absence of that.

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I think that is so important because all of the promises of God are predicated upon your

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relationship with God and your level of expectation as we were discussing previous, prior this

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week rather, your expectation is what dictates your conversation.

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And your conversation is going to control your level of manifestation because scripture

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says that death and life lies in the power of your tongue.

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So what you're saying is deriving from what do you really expect in life?

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You know, I think as we were discussing, it's one thing to utilize what I refer to as religiously

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correct terminology.

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So we know how to say the right things in the right moment to generate the right response

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that we want to receive.

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But to really have expectations of God's best in your life, as you mentioned, you have to

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get into the scriptures because you have to see all that God has outlined for you.

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Absolutely.

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I love what you just said.

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We're going to take them into, I'm going to allow you to take our listeners into the encounter,

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the moment, the conversation that you and the Lord had earlier this week and how we

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actually got into this discussion of expectation.

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But I don't want to misquote you, so I want you to say it again if I misquote it.

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But you said, how did you say it?

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You said expectation.

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Your expectation dictates your conversation.

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Your conversation.

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Yeah, that's it.

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Did y'all hear that?

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I want y'all to write that down.

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Your expectation dictates your conversation.

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Your expectation dictates your conversation.

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Now, take 60 seconds and explain what do you mean by that statement?

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That's a powerful statement.

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I want to make sure that our listeners understand it.

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Your expectation dictates your conversation because he's not just rhyming you all.

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It rhymes, but it's a powerful statement.

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And I want to make sure that our listeners understand it.

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Because he's not just rhyming you all, it rhymes, but it's a powerful statement and

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I want to make sure that you all understand precisely the point that James is endeavoring

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to make through that statement.

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Because many of you, your conversation, the reason you have not received what you are

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expecting or hoping for is because your conversation refutes what you're expecting.

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Your conversation disputes it.

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Your conversation combats it.

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So your conversation dictates, your expectation rather, dictates your conversation.

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Explain that.

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Well, okay.

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So as we said, you know, this is a biblical perspective so we definitely want to utilize

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scripture.

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Scripture indicates that death and life lies in the power of the tongue.

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So and again, you're correct, it rhymes, but trust me, that's not my intention.

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It just happens to be that's the way it came to me.

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But when I say your expectation dictates your conversation, I'm not speaking about the conversation

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that you say to other people.

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Because that's where we learn how to be religiously correct.

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Those of us that have been in this faith for any amount of time, we learn the right things

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to say.

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But when I say your expectation dictates your conversation, what I'm really speaking of

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is what are you saying to yourself about your situation?

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Because what you're saying to yourself about your situation is what matters the most.

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Because if you're not saying those things to yourself that line up with the scriptures,

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it does not matter that you say those things to other people.

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It's the internal dialogue that's controlling your level of manifestation.

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It's what you're saying to yourself.

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Hold on bro, you said it's your internal dialogue that is the significant aspect of the conversation.

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What you are saying to yourself, the conversations that are going on in your head, that you're

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having in your heart, the unheard dialogue.

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I love that.

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The internal conversation.

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Go ahead, continue.

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That's certainly it, and that's one of the things that God has really shared with me

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recently and I've been able to grow in that area.

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It's those things that you say to yourself about your situation.

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All too often, we speak to ourselves based on our emotions.

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So we respond to the situations and circumstances in our lives when in reality you have to speak

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to yourself based on what God has already said.

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And one thing that I've discovered in life is that situations and circumstances won't

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always line up with what God has said.

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However, if you speak based upon those situations and circumstances, you can expect for them

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to continue.

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That's good, absolutely.

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I want to connect your statement with Numbers 13 and 33.

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I want you to repeat it again for the people when you said it's the internal dialogue.

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Yes sir, it's the internal dialogue, the things that you're saying to yourself.

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I utilize the word dialogue intentionally, not just monologue because some people would

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think dialogue meaning there's an actual conversation going on, monologue meaning it's just one

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individual speaking.

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But how can you have dialogue within yourself?

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Because to be honest, there's oftentimes a conflict going on within yourself because

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there's your spirit that's having a conversation with your mind, your intellect.

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And sometimes we try to intellectualize the scriptures and you can't spiritualize and

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intellectualize at the same time.

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That's good.

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You have to, you know what, never mind.

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My head, my thoughts, my mind is going so many places.

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That was good.

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You said you can't spiritualize or intellectualize at the same time.

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That is powerful.

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You have to either, and you know what listeners, that's very true if you think about it.

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Because it's just like if you are, you really can't talk and have or develop a complete

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thought in your head.

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Because if I'm thinking in my head about whatever I'm thinking about and when I start to speak,

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me speaking interrupts the flow of my thoughts.

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And if you think about it, many times when you're thinking, you're having that internal

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dialogue with yourself and someone enters in the room or enters into your space and

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they start talking and you're in deep thought.

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Most times what do we do?

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We stop them like, no, hold on, let me finish processing this thought.

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Or if you're writing and you're dictating your thoughts or manifesting your thoughts

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through journaling or what have you.

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And if someone, many times I'm writing books or whatever, my wife comes in and starts talking

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to me and I'll say, well, no, hold on, let me finish this thought.

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Because what you're saying is going to interrupt or interject the flow of thought.

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And so we have to be able to calm or settle, settle ourselves.

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And really the truth of the matter is, let me say it this way, the Word of God can't

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be as you said, intellectualized anyway, because God does not speak to us through our intellect.

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Now he uses our intellect, but God speaks to us and converses with us because he is

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spirit.

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God speaks to us spirit to spirit.

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And many times that's where the disconnect is.

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We're trying to intellectualize that which is spiritual, but spirituality supersedes

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and overrides intellectual and or carnal wisdom.

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And so you can't think your way or intellectualize your way into understanding God.

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I hope that makes sense.

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But what I want to connect to that statement, the internal conversations that we have with

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ourselves, it is that conversation that if it's not the right conversation that can be

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detrimental to your life.

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It can impede the manifestation of what you're hoping for, what you're expecting.

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And in Numbers 13 and 33, it says, and there we saw the giants, the sons of Anak who come

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of the giants.

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And we were in our own sight as grasshoppers.

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And so we were in their sight.

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There's nowhere in that passage of scripture or in that chapter of Numbers that we are

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informed that the spies, the 10 spies that went in to the promised land to view, there's

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nowhere in the text where it says that the giants saw them.

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The giants didn't know they were in the land.

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Hence, they were spies.

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They went in undetected.

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But it was that internal conversation that they had with themselves.

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They had already convinced themselves that they were less than, that they were incapable

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of doing, accomplishing, acquiring what God told them they could, what He told them He

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had already given to them, but they were intimidated by the opposition because their perspective

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concerning themselves was less than.

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It says that they were grasshoppers in their sight.

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And so they assumed that because they saw themselves as defeated and as grasshoppers

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that the giants saw them as such.

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But there was no scriptural indication that the current inhabitants of the land saw them

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and said that they were grasshoppers and all of that.

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So my point is to your point that internal conversation, it's your expectation that determines

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your conversation.

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And really, James, we can even flip it.

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It's your conversation that dictates your expectation.

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And many people, their expectation is low.

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Yeah.

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But their expectations are at ground zero because of the conversation, the low self-esteem,

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the inferiority complex and all of the other things.

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So share your thoughts on that.

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And then I want you to take us into, take our listeners into the conversation that you

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and the Lord had in your vehicle and how this subject came about of expectation.

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So share your thoughts in regards to what we just dialogued about or what I just spoke

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about and then take us into that time with you and the Lord.

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Well, you know, I agree with everything you just said.

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I think it can actually be said both ways, your expectation dictates your conversation

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or we can flip it and say your conversation dictates your expectation.

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I think that while it can be said both ways, the main focal point is your conversation,

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having the correct conversations within yourself really is the main, I guess, the main meat

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of what we're attempting to convey here.

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As I was sharing with you earlier this week, you know, I'm a trucker, so my occupation

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allows me to spend the majority of my day alone.

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And I usually start my mornings off listening to some gospel, praying and meditating.

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And one of the things that God has really taught me over the course of time is that

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it's not so much that when I pray, I need to say what I have to say to God, but I need

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to be silent for a period of time and allow Him to speak to me.

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So during this time on a particular morning this week, I was just listening to some music.

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There was a song playing by Reverend Clay Evans for the rest of my life.

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And as I was just listening to it and began to ponder on some things and God began to

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speak to me about expectations, what do you really expect in your life?

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Because as I mentioned, one of the things that we as Christians, we learn how to be

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religiously correct.

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We learn how to put on a facade.

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We learn how to do church.

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Unfortunately, in this day and age, for many Christians, church has become nothing more

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than a learned activity.

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That's true.

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So just to have some time again with God, just speaking to me and asking me, what is

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it that I really expect in life?

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You know, on a personal note, man, there are countless situations in life right now that

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I am confused about, that I am praying to God to provide relief in.

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So God began to check me because one of those situations, I had to adjust my conversation

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about that situation.

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Because while I'm praying and asking that God would provide relief in that situation,

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my conversation was still rooted in my frustration.

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And if your conversation isn't lining up with what God is attempting to do, then what you

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are saying is actually counteracting what God is doing on your behalf.

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That's why there's a terminology of supernatural.

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God is doing his super, but you're not doing your natural because your conversation is

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still rooted in your frustration.

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So I was just listening to God and I began to ponder, okay, what is it that I really

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expect in life?

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And one of the things that God shared with me is you have to really expect the best out

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of life.

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You have a right to expect the best out of life.

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You have to expect great things to happen to you.

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You have to expect to be blessed.

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And one of the things that God showed me is that one of the reasons why so many people

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have low expectations is because at some point in their life, they had high expectations.

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And what they were praying for, what they were expecting, it didn't happen.

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And that's traumatizing.

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It's disappointing.

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It hurts.

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So what most people do, especially us as men, we tend to internalize our trauma.

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And when you internalize it, you don't effectively process it.

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And unprocessed trauma will cripple you.

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So most people have crippled faith.

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So their level of expectation has been crippled.

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And because they don't want to experience that hurt and disappointment ever again, they

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simply decide that instead of expecting all of these great things to happen to me in life,

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I'll just settle for mediocrity.

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I'll settle for average.

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And if God wants to do exceeding and abundantly above all that I could ask a thing, then sure,

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He can go for it.

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But I won't expect that.

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And that's not a philosophy that's rooted in Scripture.

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And that's not the way that God wants us to think.

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God wants us to expect the best things out of life.

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But in order to be in that position to do so, again, it necessitates that you effectively

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process and deal with past traumas.

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And I can't speak for women because I'm not a woman, never have been, have no desire to

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be one.

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I think that's necessary to see in this day and age that we live in.

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However, I can speak as a man.

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We tend to internalize our trauma and mask it because we think that defines our masculinity.

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And suppress it.

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We suppress it.

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Exactly.

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Go ahead.

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Go ahead.

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So, you know, I was just, again, you know, driving along, letting God download some information

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into me and just pondering on life and, you know, the various adjustments that I need

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to make in regards to some situations.

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And another thing that God shared with me, you know, we think of opportunities, man.

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And as opportunities come in life, you know, I'm certain that we would all agree that some

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opportunities are short-lived.

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And that being said, you need to take advantage of the opportunity and the life of the opportunity

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because some opportunities only come once in a lifetime.

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And I was pondering on that.

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And as I pondered that, God enlightened me to the fact that in all actuality, every day

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is a once in a lifetime opportunity because every day you see is a day that you've never

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seen before.

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And once it comes to a close, you'll never again get to see it.

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Right.

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And tomorrow is not promised.

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Exactly.

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00:38:01,980 --> 00:38:08,420
So, understanding that it's imperative to make the best out of each day, you know, even

468
00:38:08,420 --> 00:38:12,180
on yesterday in particular, I encountered a situation that was somewhat frustrating

469
00:38:12,180 --> 00:38:13,180
to me.

470
00:38:13,180 --> 00:38:16,660
And I was reminded of what God has shared with me.

471
00:38:16,660 --> 00:38:23,020
And I said, well, you know, I'm agitated, I'm frustrated, aggravated by this situation,

472
00:38:23,020 --> 00:38:27,340
but I'm not going to let this define my day.

473
00:38:27,340 --> 00:38:31,980
I'm going to make an intentional decision that I'm going to continue to have a good

474
00:38:31,980 --> 00:38:35,460
day because I was having a great day up until this occurred.

475
00:38:35,460 --> 00:38:36,940
It's already occurred.

476
00:38:36,940 --> 00:38:37,940
I can't change it.

477
00:38:37,940 --> 00:38:41,420
So I'm simply going to move on from it.

478
00:38:41,420 --> 00:38:43,940
Now, that's good.

479
00:38:43,940 --> 00:38:49,580
So that's another thing that God had just been, you know, just sharing with me again

480
00:38:49,580 --> 00:38:52,980
about your level of expectation.

481
00:38:52,980 --> 00:39:02,540
And you have, I guess I don't want to speak as though I'm speaking at people because again,

482
00:39:02,540 --> 00:39:08,820
these are things that God spoke to me and adjustments that I recognize that I needed

483
00:39:08,820 --> 00:39:11,540
to make.

484
00:39:11,540 --> 00:39:18,940
But it's just, at least for me, it was a matter of, I know God, you know, I often tell people

485
00:39:18,940 --> 00:39:23,220
this and people laugh at the way I say it, but I'm just me when it comes to God because

486
00:39:23,220 --> 00:39:28,500
I don't believe that you got to try to be this extra double, triple spiritual person

487
00:39:28,500 --> 00:39:30,340
and use all these big fancy words.

488
00:39:30,340 --> 00:39:35,740
And I don't make a mockery of that because I think that's one of the errors of this generation.

489
00:39:35,740 --> 00:39:40,660
We make a mockery of how some people speak of God or relate to God.

490
00:39:40,660 --> 00:39:41,660
I'm not that person.

491
00:39:41,660 --> 00:39:45,940
But I oftentimes tell people, you know, the thing with me is I'm really down with God

492
00:39:45,940 --> 00:39:46,940
like that.

493
00:39:46,940 --> 00:39:47,940
Right.

494
00:39:47,940 --> 00:39:51,580
And most importantly, I know He's down with me like that.

495
00:39:51,580 --> 00:39:54,380
You understand what I'm saying?

496
00:39:54,380 --> 00:39:59,780
So I have a great level of confidence that, you know, the situations in my life that are

497
00:39:59,780 --> 00:40:08,460
a nuisance to me, that are a source of aggravation, frustration, even disappointment, I trust

498
00:40:08,460 --> 00:40:09,460
God.

499
00:40:09,460 --> 00:40:13,060
I really trust God like that because I've seen what God does.

500
00:40:13,060 --> 00:40:20,800
So my trust in my faith in God and my expectation of Him is not predicated upon what someone

501
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,940
told me God did for them.

502
00:40:23,940 --> 00:40:27,700
But I know what He's done in my life and what He's continuing to do in my life.

503
00:40:27,700 --> 00:40:31,500
This man that I've become now, this has been a process of evolution.

504
00:40:31,500 --> 00:40:38,300
And although I'm not perfect, I humbly say that I applaud myself for the progress that

505
00:40:38,300 --> 00:40:44,020
I've made in life on a practical level as well as spiritually.

506
00:40:44,020 --> 00:40:51,060
It's been a process of growth and I applaud myself and I'm grateful.

507
00:40:51,060 --> 00:40:54,580
So because of that, and because of the growth that I've seen in myself, I know what God

508
00:40:54,580 --> 00:40:57,580
is capable of doing.

509
00:40:57,580 --> 00:40:58,580
Absolutely.

510
00:40:58,580 --> 00:41:00,860
That's where the expectation comes from.

511
00:41:00,860 --> 00:41:06,380
You know, when we were younger growing up, you know, older folks would say, I tried them

512
00:41:06,380 --> 00:41:07,380
for myself.

513
00:41:07,380 --> 00:41:08,380
Yes.

514
00:41:08,380 --> 00:41:12,820
And that's the best way that I can put it when I speak of having expectations.

515
00:41:12,820 --> 00:41:16,100
You got to try God for yourself and really see what He do.

516
00:41:16,100 --> 00:41:20,840
Don't just base your expectation off of what my brother and I are sharing, but you really

517
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:22,940
have to try God for yourself.

518
00:41:22,940 --> 00:41:23,940
Right.

519
00:41:23,940 --> 00:41:29,820
Going back to developing your own relationship with the Lord Jesus.

520
00:41:29,820 --> 00:41:30,820
Exactly.

521
00:41:30,820 --> 00:41:31,820
Because...

522
00:41:31,820 --> 00:41:35,580
As the scripture says, all taste and see that the Lord is good.

523
00:41:35,580 --> 00:41:36,580
Yes, sir.

524
00:41:36,580 --> 00:41:41,780
And that's a powerful point that you made.

525
00:41:41,780 --> 00:41:48,340
Again, tying it, directing it all back to relationship.

526
00:41:48,340 --> 00:41:58,980
That is how we opened up today's show and laid the foundation that your expectations

527
00:41:58,980 --> 00:42:07,580
for God, for yourself, for individuals, that expectation is built upon the foundation of

528
00:42:07,580 --> 00:42:09,900
relationship.

529
00:42:09,900 --> 00:42:19,460
It's based upon the time and the experiences that you have encountered with that person

530
00:42:19,460 --> 00:42:23,420
getting to know them, them getting to know you.

531
00:42:23,420 --> 00:42:34,820
And so people whom we don't know our expectations pertaining to them, they are low or minimal

532
00:42:34,820 --> 00:42:37,500
because we don't know them.

533
00:42:37,500 --> 00:42:43,520
But for those whom we know and our knowing of them is positive.

534
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:44,840
We know that they're punctual.

535
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:46,260
We know that they're dependable.

536
00:42:46,260 --> 00:42:47,800
We know that they're reliable.

537
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:49,980
We know that their word is their bond.

538
00:42:49,980 --> 00:42:57,980
Our expectation for them is higher than those that we do know.

539
00:42:57,980 --> 00:43:00,940
However, what we know about them is that they're not punctual.

540
00:43:00,940 --> 00:43:02,540
They're not dependable.

541
00:43:02,540 --> 00:43:05,860
They're a liar.

542
00:43:05,860 --> 00:43:08,860
They tell you they're going to do something and they don't do it.

543
00:43:08,860 --> 00:43:09,860
Right.

544
00:43:09,860 --> 00:43:19,780
So my expectation for you is not where I would want it because what I know about you is that

545
00:43:19,780 --> 00:43:27,700
you can't follow through or carry through with what you have.

546
00:43:27,700 --> 00:43:32,820
Your word is not your bond and that's not of course the Lord Jesus.

547
00:43:32,820 --> 00:43:38,060
And what I want to as we get ready to close it up here, it's been, I'm telling you time

548
00:43:38,060 --> 00:43:39,700
flies when you're having fun.

549
00:43:39,700 --> 00:43:43,340
This has been a very powerful conversation.

550
00:43:43,340 --> 00:43:51,820
But I want to go back to the word you use intentional and or intentionality because

551
00:43:51,820 --> 00:43:58,740
you were vulnerable a moment ago and you shared how just this week there was a situation that

552
00:43:58,740 --> 00:44:01,980
didn't pan out as you expected.

553
00:44:01,980 --> 00:44:08,340
But you realized, okay, I can't change what has happened, what has transpired, but I am

554
00:44:08,340 --> 00:44:15,340
making an intentional decision not to allow the disappointment that I may have experienced

555
00:44:15,340 --> 00:44:27,140
regardless of what it was, but I'm intentionally not allowing the disappointment to strip me

556
00:44:27,140 --> 00:44:35,500
of my future hope and or future expectation because as the old gospel song, trouble don't

557
00:44:35,500 --> 00:44:40,740
last always, Timothy Wright and or this too will pass.

558
00:44:40,740 --> 00:44:48,100
And I love how you talked about trauma, how men in particular, we internalize our trauma

559
00:44:48,100 --> 00:44:50,060
because it's just true.

560
00:44:50,060 --> 00:44:57,020
Men generally speaking, most men are not as conversational as women.

561
00:44:57,020 --> 00:45:04,580
Most men don't freely discuss their feelings and things of that nature because we have

562
00:45:04,580 --> 00:45:16,140
been taught most men from children, men don't cry, men don't reveal how they feel.

563
00:45:16,140 --> 00:45:20,100
Like you said, internalize it, we keep it to ourselves and things of that nature.

564
00:45:20,100 --> 00:45:29,400
But that really has destroyed the confidence and the expectation in most men pertaining

565
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:31,140
to themselves.

566
00:45:31,140 --> 00:45:40,380
But I love what you said, again, how you made an intentional conscious decision to move

567
00:45:40,380 --> 00:45:44,860
beyond and move past what happened and what transpired.

568
00:45:44,860 --> 00:45:56,260
And you did not allow that moment of disappointment to rob you or strip you of hoping in the future.

569
00:45:56,260 --> 00:45:57,620
Now talk about that.

570
00:45:57,620 --> 00:46:06,180
How that is important when you don't experience what you've expected for whatever the reason,

571
00:46:06,180 --> 00:46:16,180
how not to allow that disappointment to rob you of hoping and expecting in the future

572
00:46:16,180 --> 00:46:21,380
because that's where many people are at and you even touched upon it early on.

573
00:46:21,380 --> 00:46:23,220
That's where many people are.

574
00:46:23,220 --> 00:46:35,820
You are stuck in your moment of disappointment and so you are deceived in thinking that because

575
00:46:35,820 --> 00:46:41,940
what you expected didn't happen this time that nothing you expect or nothing you hope

576
00:46:41,940 --> 00:46:46,980
for will happen or you keep pushing it, you keep prolonging it.

577
00:46:46,980 --> 00:46:53,580
And as the scripture talks about in Proverbs 13 and 12, hope deferred, make it the heart

578
00:46:53,580 --> 00:46:54,580
sick.

579
00:46:54,580 --> 00:46:56,420
You keep deferring your hope.

580
00:46:56,420 --> 00:47:04,140
Well, it'll happen one day or I'll address it one day or I'll get back to it sooner or

581
00:47:04,140 --> 00:47:11,340
later and you keep pushing your expectation further and further and further away, not

582
00:47:11,340 --> 00:47:19,780
realizing that deferring your expectation is what is continuing to feed the sickness

583
00:47:19,780 --> 00:47:26,780
and the illness of disappointment, discouragement, loneliness and all of that.

584
00:47:26,780 --> 00:47:33,620
So talk about that as we get ready to close but talk about that.

585
00:47:33,620 --> 00:47:41,100
How important is intentionality, not allowing the disappointment to incarcerate you and

586
00:47:41,100 --> 00:47:45,220
confine you but to hope and expect again?

587
00:47:45,220 --> 00:47:46,220
Go ahead.

588
00:47:46,220 --> 00:47:49,220
You know, I think it's imperative.

589
00:47:49,220 --> 00:47:50,220
It's essential.

590
00:47:50,220 --> 00:47:51,220
It's necessary.

591
00:47:51,220 --> 00:47:56,020
Intentionality is even necessary to receive the gift of salvation because you must first

592
00:47:56,020 --> 00:48:03,940
make an intentional decision to do so as it relates to our present discussion here.

593
00:48:03,940 --> 00:48:12,180
I think that one of the things that most people fail to realize is that life happens and it

594
00:48:12,180 --> 00:48:14,500
happens to everyone, all of us.

595
00:48:14,500 --> 00:48:17,340
It does not discriminate.

596
00:48:17,340 --> 00:48:24,900
Life will throw you some unexpected situations and circumstances that you probably could

597
00:48:24,900 --> 00:48:27,260
never have even imagined.

598
00:48:27,260 --> 00:48:37,420
Still, yet, you have to make the intentional decision to hold on, to not give up, to persevere,

599
00:48:37,420 --> 00:48:42,580
to continue to expect great things in this lifetime.

600
00:48:42,580 --> 00:48:43,580
Adversity comes.

601
00:48:43,580 --> 00:48:47,060
Even the Bible tells us, think it not strange.

602
00:48:47,060 --> 00:48:54,100
So we were forewarned that you're going to experience adversity in this life and experiencing

603
00:48:54,100 --> 00:49:00,980
such adversity is in no way indicative that God has left you.

604
00:49:00,980 --> 00:49:03,620
That's good, sir.

605
00:49:03,620 --> 00:49:07,420
Adversity is a part of life that you are going to experience.

606
00:49:07,420 --> 00:49:15,140
You have to make the intentional decision to allow God to carry you through it.

607
00:49:15,140 --> 00:49:20,580
Something that Steve Harvey oftentimes says, and I like the way he says it, there is no

608
00:49:20,580 --> 00:49:25,140
situation in your life that God hasn't carried you through.

609
00:49:25,140 --> 00:49:31,820
And if he hasn't carried you through it, he's currently carrying you through it right now.

610
00:49:31,820 --> 00:49:36,060
And the proof of that is that you're still here.

611
00:49:36,060 --> 00:49:41,180
So I think that intentionality is medicine-perative.

612
00:49:41,180 --> 00:49:45,900
It's the only way to get through the trials and tribulations of life.

613
00:49:45,900 --> 00:49:52,140
You have to resolve in yourself that this is something that I am going to do.

614
00:49:52,140 --> 00:49:53,980
I will trust in God.

615
00:49:53,980 --> 00:49:56,460
I will place my faith in God.

616
00:49:56,460 --> 00:49:59,820
I will allow for God to carry me through this.

617
00:49:59,820 --> 00:50:03,100
I will lean on His grace.

618
00:50:03,100 --> 00:50:05,100
As Scripture says, His grace is sufficient.

619
00:50:05,100 --> 00:50:06,100
Yes, sir.

620
00:50:06,100 --> 00:50:07,100
God knows it.

621
00:50:07,100 --> 00:50:12,060
But it's all about what you intentionally decide to do.

622
00:50:12,060 --> 00:50:20,940
And I know some may say you overutilize that word intentional, but I do so, again, intentionally

623
00:50:20,940 --> 00:50:21,940
because it's necessary.

624
00:50:21,940 --> 00:50:22,940
It's a decision.

625
00:50:22,940 --> 00:50:25,260
It's not something that just happens.

626
00:50:25,260 --> 00:50:32,020
It's not something that, you know, you just snap your fingers and all of a sudden you

627
00:50:32,020 --> 00:50:36,260
just have the resilience necessary to get through everything in life.

628
00:50:36,260 --> 00:50:38,380
No, it's an intentional decision.

629
00:50:38,380 --> 00:50:40,900
I will trust God.

630
00:50:40,900 --> 00:50:42,180
It's complicated at times.

631
00:50:42,180 --> 00:50:48,740
At times it conflicts with my natural human emotions because me being a man of faith does

632
00:50:48,740 --> 00:50:50,940
not nullify that I am human.

633
00:50:50,940 --> 00:50:52,540
I still feel disappointment.

634
00:50:52,540 --> 00:50:53,700
I feel hurt.

635
00:50:53,700 --> 00:50:54,700
I feel let down.

636
00:50:54,700 --> 00:50:55,700
I feel anger, frustration.

637
00:50:55,700 --> 00:50:56,700
Absolutely.

638
00:50:56,700 --> 00:51:03,980
But in spite of those natural human emotions, I've made a decision that I will allow God

639
00:51:03,980 --> 00:51:04,980
to carry me through.

640
00:51:04,980 --> 00:51:12,260
As I oftentimes say to people, something that God has taught me is in this life, you have

641
00:51:12,260 --> 00:51:20,260
to learn how to not be at peace with the situation, but yet and still choose peace within the

642
00:51:20,260 --> 00:51:21,260
situation.

643
00:51:21,260 --> 00:51:22,260
Now that's good.

644
00:51:22,260 --> 00:51:24,780
And that's where I am in life.

645
00:51:24,780 --> 00:51:31,060
There's many situations in my life right now that I am not at peace with, but I have chosen

646
00:51:31,060 --> 00:51:36,180
to be at peace within the situation as God works it out.

647
00:51:36,180 --> 00:51:42,380
Because when you've thrown money at situations, when you've tried to talk your way through

648
00:51:42,380 --> 00:51:48,900
it, you've tried to flick your way through it, when you've tried all else, then you come

649
00:51:48,900 --> 00:51:55,220
to the realization that this is one that only God can fix.

650
00:51:55,220 --> 00:52:01,580
So then for me, I took my hand off of it because if I take out my phone out of my pocket and

651
00:52:01,580 --> 00:52:06,900
I give it to you, I haven't given it to you because I've extended it to you in my hand.

652
00:52:06,900 --> 00:52:11,340
I haven't even given it to you because you put your hand on it.

653
00:52:11,340 --> 00:52:14,500
I've only given it to you once I take my hand off of it.

654
00:52:14,500 --> 00:52:19,500
And once I take my hand off of it, then I've relinquished control of it.

655
00:52:19,500 --> 00:52:21,340
I no longer have control of it.

656
00:52:21,340 --> 00:52:25,300
You have control of it now because I've taken my hand off of it.

657
00:52:25,300 --> 00:52:31,260
So one of the things God taught me is a great indicator of your level of faith and trust

658
00:52:31,260 --> 00:52:36,420
in God is can you take your hand off of that situation?

659
00:52:36,420 --> 00:52:38,700
Can you stop trying to fix that situation?

660
00:52:38,700 --> 00:52:43,740
Because sometimes as Christians, we have an inaccurate understanding of the scripture

661
00:52:43,740 --> 00:52:46,220
that says faith without works is dead.

662
00:52:46,220 --> 00:52:51,260
That doesn't mean you all the time need to be doing something physically in this situation.

663
00:52:51,260 --> 00:52:57,420
Sometimes the work that's required is having the discipline to take your hand off of it

664
00:52:57,420 --> 00:53:01,980
in spite of your emotions telling you to try this, try that.

665
00:53:01,980 --> 00:53:06,180
The work sometimes is having the discipline to take your hand off of it and not touch

666
00:53:06,180 --> 00:53:10,980
it anymore and wait for God to give you the next set of instructions because your good

667
00:53:10,980 --> 00:53:16,500
intentions are not the equivalent of God's instructions and God is only required to honor

668
00:53:16,500 --> 00:53:18,180
his instructions.

669
00:53:18,180 --> 00:53:23,820
Many things in life I've done in situations having great intentions but ended up making

670
00:53:23,820 --> 00:53:28,460
the situation far worse than it already was because that's not what God instructed to

671
00:53:28,460 --> 00:53:29,460
do.

672
00:53:29,460 --> 00:53:33,740
Sometimes we try to move prematurely.

673
00:53:33,740 --> 00:53:35,740
That's true.

674
00:53:35,740 --> 00:53:37,300
Absolutely.

675
00:53:37,300 --> 00:53:48,460
Well, James, this has been a wonderful, delightful, insightful, powerful and empowering time.

676
00:53:48,460 --> 00:53:55,620
I have so enjoyed this dialogue with you and thank you for being my special guest.

677
00:53:55,620 --> 00:53:56,620
Yes, sir, man.

678
00:53:56,620 --> 00:53:58,100
Thank you for having me.

679
00:53:58,100 --> 00:54:00,180
Listen, this is not the last time.

680
00:54:00,180 --> 00:54:02,900
It's the first time but it's not the last time.

681
00:54:02,900 --> 00:54:08,980
We're going to have James Johnson who is my baby brother.

682
00:54:08,980 --> 00:54:14,460
He is the youngest of the three of us boys that mom had.

683
00:54:14,460 --> 00:54:20,980
I am the middle and so I'm not his eldest brother but I am his older brother.

684
00:54:20,980 --> 00:54:27,220
He's the baby of the group and I'm so proud of you and I've told you this personally and

685
00:54:27,220 --> 00:54:36,180
I'm saying it publicly and persons in 43 countries are listening and or will listen and I'm proud

686
00:54:36,180 --> 00:54:42,500
of the man that you have become, the father that you are and I have seen his journey from

687
00:54:42,500 --> 00:54:48,740
birth up into this present time and we're going to have him back and who knows what

688
00:54:48,740 --> 00:54:56,820
we're going to discuss in dialogue about in the future but this young man has a powerful,

689
00:54:56,820 --> 00:54:57,820
powerful testimony.

690
00:54:57,820 --> 00:55:02,580
I'm not even going to allude to what it is but it's a powerful testimony and we're going

691
00:55:02,580 --> 00:55:06,740
to have him come back and he may share that.

692
00:55:06,740 --> 00:55:12,780
He may discuss and share something else but at some point we're definitely going to have

693
00:55:12,780 --> 00:55:19,660
James back on a biblical perspective so that he can share that powerful testimony and help

694
00:55:19,660 --> 00:55:26,940
build your faith and your expectation and let you know that as he has already eloquently

695
00:55:26,940 --> 00:55:34,220
stated throughout our conversation, if you maintain your relationship with Jesus Christ

696
00:55:34,220 --> 00:55:39,180
and do your part as it pertains to the maintenance thereof because we know God's going to do

697
00:55:39,180 --> 00:55:40,180
his part.

698
00:55:40,180 --> 00:55:41,180
Certainly.

699
00:55:41,180 --> 00:55:42,860
He always does.

700
00:55:42,860 --> 00:55:50,460
There's us that fall short but if you maintain your relationship and ensure that your hope

701
00:55:50,460 --> 00:56:00,620
and your expectation is in God, his word and you are operating, complying, abiding therein,

702
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that it doesn't matter what happens in your life.

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My brother is literally proof that God can restore you.

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God can literally raise you from the dead and he can reestablish your hope and your

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expectation not only in him because in most cases, in some cases it's not the expectation

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and our hope in God that is rocky or shaky.

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It's our hope and expectation of people and even more importantly really of ourselves

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and God has a way of helping you to reestablish faith, trust and hope in yourself.

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Many of you listening under the sound of our voice, your issue is not with people or God

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as it pertains to expectation.

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Your issue is with you.

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You don't expect the best out of your own self anymore.

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You don't expect things to get better.

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You don't expect progression.

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You don't expect things to pick up.

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You don't expect progress to develop in your life because as James said, you are internalizing

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your trauma.

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You're holding on to your trauma and sometimes in order to receive the help, to receive the

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release, to receive the healing, you have to go to the professionals, the psychologists,

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the psychiatrists connecting with the spiritual to help you receive the totality of the deliverance

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that God wants for you and that Jesus died to provide.

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So we're out of time but I again am so grateful to my baby brother James Johnson for being

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with me, my very special guest.

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I am just, listen, I'm just hippopotamus happy as they say, you having decided to be my guest

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on today and I know you all were blessed and empowered by this dialogue.

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I want you to do me a favor and connect with me on social media if you are not already.

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See Terrell Johnson on Instagram and Facebook and also go to my website ctjohnson.org and

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pick up my newest book, Empower Your Thinking, volume one, quotes to shift consciousness,

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provoke thought and increase understanding.

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Don't allow your conversation to be rooted in your frustration.

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That's a powerful quote by James.

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Don't allow your conversation to be rooted in your frustration but allow your conversation

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to be rooted in your expectations, expectations of progression, betterment, the favor of God,

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the blessing of God, the fruitfulness of God.

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Note what God's word says and allow his word, his expectation in his word to dictate your

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conversation.

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Speak life not death.

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All right, connect with me.

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I love all of you until our next podcast.

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This is Prophet CT Johnson with my very special guest, my baby brother James Brandon Johnson.

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We want you to know that we love you.

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Be empowered.

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Thanks for listening to a Biblical Perspective podcast.

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If today's episode empowered you, subscribe and rate the podcast at cpnshows.com, Apple

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podcast or wherever you listen.

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For more information about CT Johnson Ministries International, visit the website at ctjohnson.org

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Tune in next time as I continue to empower your thinking from God's perspective.