God Doesn’t Waste Anything! Bobbi Case's Story

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As you probably know by now, I love a good story, especially when it's a God story.

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Some stories awaken our emotions and expose rawness that we've tried to protect, but

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when it's God moving, we can trust exposure is for our healing, to take the sting out

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of the wounds and set us free from hurt.

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You can also trust that if God is in the story, it is always to bring about good for us, in

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us, and through us.

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This episode is such a story.

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Friends, I'm your host, Jodie Chiricosta, ministry leader at Somebody Cares America International,

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author and traveler on this journey of faith.

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Before I introduce my guest, I encourage you to take a moment to like or follow this podcast

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guests.

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I've known my guest, Bobbi Case, for nearly 25 years now.

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She's a woman who loves fiercely.

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She's generous, joyful, and full of gratitude for all God's done throughout her life.

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Bobbi is a court reporter by day and an expert quilter, among other things, by night.

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She and her husband, Rob, serve on the prayer ministry at their church and are gracious

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hosts for all who need a warm welcome.

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A mother of two adult sons, Bobbi's learned the truth about Proverbs 3:5-6, which

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says, trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding, in all

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your ways, submit to him and he will make your path straight.

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Welcome, Bobbi.

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You were raised in the church.

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Your family was as involved as they could be.

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You got saved at a very young age.

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You learned to play the piano using hymn books and you had very little contact with worldly

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things.

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How did that shape your view of God?

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I knew God at a very, very young age.

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I grew up knowing about missionaries.

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I grew up going to church and I've trusted God my whole life.

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Growing up with really a protected environment.

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Yes, very protected.

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I mean, such a blessing from the Lord, you know, when you are protected and you're not

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encountering some of the pain and hurt and tragedy at a young age.

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And that really set your view of who God is.

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Yes.

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I knew God cared for me.

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I prayed to him.

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In your preteen and teenage years, when you were trying, you know, really your self-image

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is defined during those years and that was a struggle for you.

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Explain that a little.

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Yes, it was.

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My dad had a hard time keeping a job.

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He was a mechanical engineer.

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When I was in the middle of the fourth grade, he takes a job in a town in West Virginia.

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Now it's about an hour and a half drive.

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Back then it probably was three hours because there wasn't the interstate.

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And so he got up and moved his family down there.

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So I was about nine years old, give or take.

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Move into a school in a little town that people did not move in and out of.

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So you were a stranger.

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Because you were new and you were a stranger, you kids were very mean.

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They would make fun of you, tease you, say mean things about you.

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And I had been very sheltered.

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That really affected me.

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I had a hard time making friends.

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The children there didn't really want to make friends.

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You were the stranger.

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You were the odd man out.

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It's the typical, they pick a team during gym class and you're not picked.

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Or you're the last one.

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That really affected your sense of self-worth.

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Yes.

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I had no self-worth.

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Words that are sown in our lives for good or for evil can really have long-lasting effect.

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And Satan will use those if we allow him to in our lives.

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And the goodness of God changes that.

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Yes, it does.

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He changes all of that.

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So you continued to move around a little bit.

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Your dad got different jobs.

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And in high school, you were in a new place, in a new city, trying to find friends again.

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And you took a home-ed class in high school.

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And God had a surprise for you there.

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Tell us about that and how that impacted the next few years of your life.

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We moved to Toledo, Ohio.

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One of the first things we did, we went to a church up there.

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This is the beginning of my sophomore year of high school.

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My parents got us right into the youth group.

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And I was in the 10th grade in the home-ed class.

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And the way the rooms were set up, you had your sewing machine face another girl's sewing

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machine or boy.

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But most of my class was all girls.

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We were learning to sew.

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And the girl across from me, her name was Kim.

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And she started talking to me.

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And she said, well, do you go to church?

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I said, yes, I do go to church.

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And she said, well, where do you go?

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And I told her.

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And she said, well, I go to that church.

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And I said, really?

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She goes, yeah.

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I said, well, I've been to the youth group.

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And I haven't seen you.

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And she had been out of town because of summer.

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And Kim, to this day, has been my best friend for 51 years.

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And God is so gracious like that.

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In a time when you were struggling with your self-image and self-worth and friends, God

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gave you a wonderful friend in Kim that ended up being your lifelong friend in high school.

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His loving kindness and his faithfulness never ceases.

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God is such a good God.

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And he really provided for you during those high school years.

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You got involved in that church.

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You had friends there.

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You even started traveling with singing, didn't you?

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Yes.

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My mom led the youth choir.

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She started a youth choir at that church.

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And we traveled around the state of Ohio.

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And my dad would drive the bus.

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We would sing for youth rallies.

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We'd just sing in different churches.

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At least three or four years we did that.

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Well, when you graduated from high school, you didn't really have much direction.

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I mean, your whole focus in life had been wrapped up in church activities, which undoubtedly

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shaped your expectations for life.

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What were your expectations or your hopes for the future at that point?

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I didn't even have a clue about college, which you would think right after high school you

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would be looking for colleges.

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And my parents never talked to me about college.

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When I got out of high school, I didn't know what it was I was supposed to do.

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I got a job for a year working for a chiropractor.

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And then a lot of my friends were going to a school in Lakeland, Florida, Christian College.

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So I said, well, maybe I'll try that.

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So I applied for school and I went down there.

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Was there for two years, met a lot of people.

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In my mind, I just thought, you know, well, I'm supposed to get married and have kids

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and raise those kids to love God.

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And I didn't really have any direction whatsoever, truly, of what to do with my life.

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Just sort of like going, waking up, whatever was there that day.

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That's what I did.

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Yeah.

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So you were at a Christian college for two years.

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I mean, it was really not like a lot of Christian universities today, which actually train you

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up in any number of professions.

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This was really geared to pastors, missionaries, teachers.

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And you didn't really feel called to any of those things.

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No, I'm not a public speaker and I have no teaching qualities in my skill set.

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So after two years, there was only was in a draw for you to go back and your family

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needed some help.

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But once again, my dad was changing jobs and moving from Toledo, Ohio to Virginia Beach,

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Virginia.

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So I just decided to stay in Toledo, work part time, go to school at the University of

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Toledo.

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In this time when you're in college and seeking what to do with your life, kind of with that

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expectation that marriage is it, you met someone who was quite interested in you and you were

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taken by that.

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I met my first husband.

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That started a very tumultuous time in my life.

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I believed in prayer.

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God's direction was important to me.

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You know, God is so faithful that if we have a heart that yearns for God's direction, he

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will not let us miss it.

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He won't if we're willing to be obedient.

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So you know, I think a lot of us can look back on our life and say, gosh, did I miss

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God here?

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Did I miss God there?

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I had a heart to serve God.

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And so even though there are some bumpy times in all of our lives and we wonder, gosh, did

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I miss God on this?

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When we are truly yearning to follow God, he does not let us miss it.

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We might miss step.

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We might go through some hard times that are of our own doing.

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The ultimate destination we don't miss.

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I believe that Jodi, because I'm married now to a wonderful man and God gave me this

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second chance and I have thought the exact same thing because you know, people say that,

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you know, you're looking for the perfect mate, the perfect wife, the perfect husband.

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And then you think, well, I've missed it.

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I missed him somewhere.

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But God in his divine wisdom and in his kindness to us, he gets us back on track somehow.

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He does.

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Or he makes the path we're on somehow get back in with what he originally planned for

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us.

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There are mysteries in God that we will never fully understand or know until we're in heaven.

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Look him back and then we'll see it.

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This man that you met in college, you were smitten with him because he was showing you

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the attention, giving you the words that you need, that you had long to hear.

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That self-worth was being fulfilled from him and that relationship progressed to marriage.

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It did progress to marriage.

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And that really started 14 years of a period of betrayal and confusion.

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You know, I mean, he was really preying on your vulnerable self-image.

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Kind of a nightmare, really a nightmare no bride expects.

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Yeah, it was a nightmare.

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God turns everything for good though.

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My first husband was very deceitful.

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He lied.

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He was a thief.

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He was an abuser.

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I'm not going to go into great detail on that, but all I can figure is his growing up, he

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had some things in his life and he carried them into his adult life.

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He was very good at covering it up.

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Yes.

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There are a lot of things I still don't know and it's been over 25 years.

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I do not know a lot of what was going on.

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Maybe God allowed me to be blind to it.

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I couldn't maybe have handled it at the time.

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When he said he was leaving, it was just out of 14 years, let's say we had two years that

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were good years and you know, maybe the first year and then maybe another year in the middle,

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but I couldn't trust him.

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I couldn't trust him financially.

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I couldn't trust him, I guess sexually.

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He was involved with other women.

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It was very hurtful and I didn't have much of a self-image.

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I didn't think much of myself to begin with and then by the time the marriage ended, it

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was hard.

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Even out of that terrible time, God blessed you with two wonderful sons.

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Yeah, I tell my sons this, that nothing is ever wasted in God's economy.

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When I was in a junior in high school, our house burned down.

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The oil furnace that we had blew up.

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I was at school.

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My two sisters or three sisters had just caught the school bus and it was just my mom and

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my brother and my dad at home, my dad trying to get the furnace working.

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This is in February in Toledo, very cold.

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I have a girlfriend named Esther and her dad was a minister of our church and I went and

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stayed at their house for a few nights.

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And the minister read to me Romans 8:28 where it says, all things work together for good

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to those that love the Lord.

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I just remember that verse as far as this marriage and I think my two boys, that was

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the good that God brought from that marriage.

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My two sons, they're wonderful.

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They love God.

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They trust in God.

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My youngest son was born early.

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He was born three or four days after I found out my husband was stealing from my mother.

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When Robbie was born, they didn't expect him to live because he was born with pneumonia.

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He was a sick baby.

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God gave me the verse Hebrews 13 5.

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He said, I will never leave you or forsake you.

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So Robbie was born right.

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It was less than a week that I found out that my dad, my husband was stealing from my mother.

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God took that period of 14 years and he's made good come from it.

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You saw even miracles.

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I mean, I saw miracles.

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God really saved Robbie.

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I mean, Robbie, yes, he did.

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I was amazed when you were telling me the other day about the story.

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There was not a neonatal unit at the hospital where you gave birth.

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They were opening one, but it wasn't open yet.

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No, I had just taken a tour of the hospital nursery that day.

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They had walked us through just so when you go in to have your baby, you know where you're

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going to go and all that.

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And they showed us this intensive care unit for the babies and they said, you know, we've

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just finished this and we haven't opened it yet.

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And then the neck that night, my water broke.

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It was snowing.

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Robbie was six weeks early.

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They couldn't get him across town to the Children's Hospital or to the bigger hospital.

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God allowed him to be born there at the hospital.

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He was the first baby in the NICU.

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That's when he gave me that verse that he would never leave us.

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Here I am.

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My marriage has fallen apart.

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Now I have this brand new infant.

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They don't think he's going to live.

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Robbie now turns 38 today.

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So eventually, your first husband, Mike, he left.

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You had two young sons.

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He left you with a mountain of debt.

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Yes.

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Obviously a feeling of great failure.

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But you also had a freedom.

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I did.

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I had a freedom.

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Yes, I had a freedom.

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I was living with my mom and dad.

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They were amazing.

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I'm the sole breadwinner.

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I had a job at one of the local churches, but the minister there treated me as if I

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was one of his sheep.

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He gave me this book written by friends of his, Jim and Sally Conway.

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And in the fly leaf, he put the verse, Jeremiah 29:11.

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I know the plans I have for you, plans for good and not for evil or hurt.

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Yes, it gave me a future and a hope.

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You didn't want divorce.

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You really were praying for reconciliation for Mike to really turn his heart back over

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to the Lord.

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But he continued to walk in disobedience.

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Yes, he did.

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And it was God's mercy for him to be removed from your life and the life of your boys.

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Yes.

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And he was doing things at his job that I found out later.

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He was endangering.

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Actually, he was endangering you guys.

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Yes, he was.

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So God came in.

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He rescued you from this very harmful situation.

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And he started carrying you through.

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I mean, you talked about a little bit about the pastor who really came alongside you.

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And there were so many other instances of how he provided for you.

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And I know you could probably go on and on and on at all the little ways that God came

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in and showed his care and that he is Jehovah-Jireh, your provider.

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But just give one or two examples of how you saw God working on your behalf.

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I had an angel visit.

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Maybe people scoff at that.

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I was very distraught over this.

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I was working four jobs and going to school full time.

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And I was exhausted living with my mother and my dad.

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Now, if I wasn't with them, I don't know how I would have made it through.

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My parents really showed up.

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My sisters, my brother-in-laws, my brother, they were there.

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I was so tired at some point.

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I would be standing up.

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My bedroom was upstairs.

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I would stand at the top of my stairs and had no idea how I would have the strength

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to walk down the stairs.

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I remember standing and walking through the grocery store and just literally start to

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cry.

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So my parents took my boys and I in in June of 1992.

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And my dad added shelves in his garage to hold our boxes and stuff.

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My mom went and got paint and carpet to fix up two bedrooms for us.

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And they never complained.

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To me, they were modeling God's love for us, his parental love, how much he loves to be

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our Abba father.

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They took my boys to their sporting events, music lessons, various camping trips and cook

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suppers, helped with homework and let them build a no girls allowed clubhouse in the

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backyard where my dad used to keep his boat.

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They gave so much time and so much energy.

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I realized that they were showing me unconditional love.

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Love doesn't keep a record of right and wrongs.

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I had realized I had been doing this my whole life.

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I learned to ask the Holy Spirit to help me forgive and love.

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And guess what?

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He did.

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And then I had a visit by an angel.

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God never left me.

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And I'm sitting in choir and this person behind me leans forward and tells me that God is

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protecting me like the eagle protects her young, how the eagle puts its wings around

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the young and that God is protecting me and going to take care of me.

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And I looked around at this person and I didn't know who this person was.

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And you had been in choir a long time.

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Yes.

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I've been there probably 10 years.

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And then I didn't really talk to them after.

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And I said, well, I'll see them Sunday morning and thank them.

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And I cannot say that I saw them Sunday morning.

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It was an actual angel.

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I had seen this angel one other time in my life that I can't remember the exact circumstance,

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but I just remember my gosh, that's my angel.

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That's an angel of God leaned over.

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Physically, I saw this person tell me God's going to take care of me like the angel or

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like the eagles take care of their children.

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I'll tell you another, it was Christmas, it was December.

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I didn't know where I would get extra money to get my kids gifts for Christmas.

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I'm like, Lord, please send me some extra work.

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I'll do whatever I need to do.

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I just need some extra money.

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And I remember saying that, gosh, if you could just give it to me, that would be great too.

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And the next morning I went into work, there was an envelope sitting on my desk and I believe

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it had opened it up and it was from a friend there at church.

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And they said, God told us we had this extra money.

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God told us we needed to give it to you.

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And it was $600.

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And I just remember laughing inside thinking, well, Lord, if I'd have known it was this

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easy, I would have just asked you to give me money previously.

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A long time ago.

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To not work.

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Yeah.

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I fully believe that if you're faithful to God, and I tithe, and I've tithed since my

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very first job babysitting, that God will not let you down.

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You know, God gave me money.

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Todd wanted to play the trumpet in junior high.

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I didn't have money to buy my son a trumpet.

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I went ahead and I bought this trumpet, $300, I remember.

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My credit card and the trumpet is there, the bill comes in the mail and I'm like, okay,

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God, how are we going to pay for this?

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And the next day in the mail is a check for $335 for some work that I had done.

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Which was enough to pay the bill and to pay tithe.

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I try and share that with my kids.

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I just, I'm like, we don't need to worry about these things, truly.

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We belong to him.

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I'll tell you, he inscribed us on the palms of his hands.

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That's another verse.

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They in 49, 15 and 16, my mother forget her children, her nursing children, even though

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the mother may forget, I will never forget you.

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I've inscribed you on the palm of my hand.

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That's good.

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Yeah.

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And Bobby, while you were dealing with the fallout of, you know, the divorce and working

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hard and trying to raise your sons, you also needed to help them get through really the

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loss of their father.

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What did you do that really helped them see that God is a good father, even though they

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might not have seen an earthly father that was?

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Yeah, I prayed with them.

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I read them Bible stories.

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The two that we read over and over and over with David killing the giant and Jonah in

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the whale.

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Those were the two stories my sons loved to hear the most.

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And I would pray with them.

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When my first husband remarried, Mike wanted them in their wedding.

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And my oldest son did not want to go and be in his wedding.

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And he just sobbed and cried and cried.

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And he said, I don't understand, mom, if God loves us so much, why is my dad marrying this

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other person, this other woman?

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And I just remember hugging and praying with them.

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That's all I could do was just hold them and pray for them.

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And my youngest son, I had them in private school and I had to take them out, kept them

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in as long as I could, but then had to take them out because I couldn't afford it.

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And Robbie wasn't going to fourth grade in a new school and he didn't have any friends.

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And I knew what that felt like.

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And he was so upset.

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And I just hugged him.

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It was a Sunday night and I prayed.

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On Sunday nights, I would make sure we were together and I would have like a little prayer

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circle, the three of us.

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And so I prayed and said, Robbie, I'm going to pray and we'll have God, trust God to

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bring you friends.

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And by the end of that week, the teacher had asked him to be in some honorable position

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in the class.

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And then he's playing some ball, some game in gym or outside.

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I don't know what it is.

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It's a four square.

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And everybody wanted to be in his square.

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Everyone wanted to be with Robbie in his square.

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So within a week, God answered his prayer.

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And little things like that, I think, show children that God cares for them.

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You know, when I was growing up, there were some times when there were some specific prayers

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that I prayed and my parents prayed with me and God answered.

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And that does make such a remarkable difference.

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They were things that were important to me that my parents prayed with me about.

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And they weren't earth shattering in any way.

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But you know, they were a concern of my heart.

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God answered those.

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And I knew it was God because we had prayed about it together.

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And that does seal in our hearts, even at a young age, how God is real.

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God cares for us.

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God loves us.

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And it can help through some tumultuous times, which, you know, I know, you know, children

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who have experienced trauma in their lives, they have challenges.

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But when they see God moving on their behalf, it helps.

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That's all I could do was pray with them.

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I wasn't equipped to do anything else.

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And I relied on God through prayer my whole life.

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It's like conversational prayer.

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And it's amazing to me that people don't have conversational prayer with God.

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I remember, I don't know, about 15 years ago, I was the office manager I was working with

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at the time.

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Her husband was dying of cancer.

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I went over.

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She was having some kind of a party at her house or a Christmas party.

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You know, her husband was doing fairly well, and then they, she asked me to pray over,

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this is a group of people I didn't know, these people invited to this party, but she asked

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me to pray for the food.

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I was just astounded at that.

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And I had gone over and prayed with her husband.

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And she had told me, she said, I've never heard anybody pray like that.

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And I'm like, what?

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This is how I grew up praying.

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It's like having a conversation with God.

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And I just realized, see, I didn't grow up in formal church, like a Episcopal church

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or Presbyterian church with formal prayers, a prayer book.

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I didn't even know such things existed really until I was almost 40 years old.

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It's hard to imagine, but it's the truth.

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You know, at this point in your life, you're working multiple jobs to make ends meet.

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And at one point you already mentioned you had four jobs to support you and the boys,

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you know, through all that time, God was starting to repair your self-worth, your understanding

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of your self-worth, your worth in God's sight and showing you his love in some really tangible

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ways.

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You mentioned about, you know, the money that he gave you for Christmas for your boys, but

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there were a couple of other things too that really were very personal to you.

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God opened up a singles group for me.

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That's where I met Jodi and a lot of other friends.

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God put these Christian men and women in my life that loved my kids and loved me.

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And in Isaiah 55, eight and nine, for my thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways my

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ways says the Lord.

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For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my

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thoughts than your thoughts.

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You know, we try and make things happen and work out.

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God cares for us.

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These silly little things like, show, give me a friend or God for seven years, I went

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on trips.

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I never thought I, I went on a cruise to Bermuda.

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Here I am working four jobs, going to school.

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I have two children and God gave me the money to go to Bermuda with a cruise, with 20 some

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people and I think you were on that cruise.

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I was, I was on that trip.

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And I did not incur a debt for that.

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Yeah.

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It's incredible.

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Who would have ever thought?

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It's a little, a little kiss from God.

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It was a kiss from God.

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Yeah.

485
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:56,400
Something I really needed.

486
00:25:56,400 --> 00:26:01,220
Dear friends, there are widows and orphans all over the world who are in very difficult

487
00:26:01,220 --> 00:26:06,440
situations and they need God to show up for them in a real way, just like Bobby needed

488
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:09,200
God to show up for her in a real way.

489
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:13,920
And as a company of women together, we can show them a tangible expression of God's

490
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:17,920
love in their time of need and change the course of their life.

491
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:21,040
Would you consider joining us with a special gift to help?

492
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:25,120
Just go to her God story.org and click on the widow and orphan tab at the top of the

493
00:26:25,120 --> 00:26:26,120
page.

494
00:26:26,120 --> 00:26:31,320
And Bobby, remarriage wasn't a desire or an expectation or even a focus of yours, but

495
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:36,480
over the course of a few years, God started opening up your heart to that possibility

496
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:37,480
again.

497
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:40,600
He even gave you a dream about it, didn't he?

498
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:41,600
He sure did.

499
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:47,640
I remember in me was a desire at some point, yes, I would have liked to be married again,

500
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:51,800
but I wasn't going to marry just to marry like I did the first time.

501
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,560
I'd already done that.

502
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,880
I didn't need to be married to have self fulfillment.

503
00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:03,520
I woke up one morning and realized I had had this dream and not to embarrass anybody, but

504
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:07,760
I dreamed that this bald man was crawling into bed with me.

505
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:13,680
And I know that it, I'm like, I didn't know anybody who was bald at that point in time.

506
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:14,960
And he was a good looking man.

507
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:19,120
And it wasn't like some kind of a sexual dream or anything.

508
00:27:19,120 --> 00:27:23,840
It was just somebody, this bald guy was getting into bed with me.

509
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:29,440
And in this space of time, my anniversary, my wedding anniversary came up for my first

510
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:36,120
husband and I was reading my Bible and this was on June 16th, 1996.

511
00:27:36,120 --> 00:27:40,080
And I had been married on June 16th, 1979.

512
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:41,580
It was the exact day.

513
00:27:41,580 --> 00:27:48,680
And I read in my Bible in Isaiah 43:18, do not remember the former things or consider

514
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,080
the things of old.

515
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:53,480
Behold, I will do a new thing.

516
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,440
Now it shall spring forth.

517
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:56,960
Shall you not know it?

518
00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:00,880
I will even make a road in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.

519
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:07,680
Here I was mourning in 1996, you know, my marriage, you know, you get lonely and my

520
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,240
marriage, the first marriage was not a good marriage.

521
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:18,180
I met Rob, my current husband in 1997, I believe it was or 1996.

522
00:28:18,180 --> 00:28:21,840
I think it was 1996 now that I'm talking to you, Jody.

523
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:23,000
I met him at the beach.

524
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:24,280
We would go to the beach.

525
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:28,600
The singles group went on Sunday afternoons, we'd go play volleyball down there at the

526
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,840
beach and I would take my boys with me.

527
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:38,120
They loved my boys and they loved me and they treated me no judgmental attitude.

528
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:44,840
And I remember one of my friends, Bob, introduced me to Rob and he said, Rob, Mrs. Bobby or

529
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:45,840
whatever.

530
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:46,840
I'm a musician.

531
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:47,840
I played the piano.

532
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:52,000
I did the singing, the worship at the adult singles adult thing.

533
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:55,680
And Rob said to me, he goes, my dad owns a piano store.

534
00:28:55,680 --> 00:29:00,960
That was like the first words he ever said to me because I was a pianist.

535
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:04,200
And I'm like, oh, that's really, that's nice.

536
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:09,840
And I didn't really see Rob again or talk to him until a year later.

537
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:15,480
We were starting small groups and Anne, my friend, was manning the table when people

538
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,080
came in and she assigned them to groups.

539
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:24,360
I was leading a group along with another friend, Ryan and Anne, bless her heart.

540
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:27,720
She wanted to be in a group where she knew some of the people in the group.

541
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:34,480
So she assigned herself to my group and Rob got in the group with me.

542
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:36,920
And he wanted to sit next to the teacher.

543
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,480
That's what he says.

544
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:43,680
And from, and he asked me out.

545
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:49,200
He liked me and for who I was and he was, he's an engineer.

546
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:54,920
He's had a steady job and he asked me out and I couldn't go out with him.

547
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,320
He took him three times to get a date with me.

548
00:29:57,320 --> 00:30:02,160
Now I wasn't trying to be hold out or anything, but you know, I just would say, you had a

549
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:03,160
busy life.

550
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:04,160
Yes, I did.

551
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,160
I had kids and I didn't have jobs.

552
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:11,840
And then I had to have my, yeah, I had things planned and he asked me out three times.

553
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:16,800
And our first date, I believe was January 4th, 1998.

554
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:22,720
So Bobby, what was different about him and the way he pursued you that allowed you to

555
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,680
be able to trust him?

556
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:26,640
Because there's a lot of mistrust there.

557
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:30,680
You know, I mean, God had been healing that over the seven years, but you know, when you

558
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:34,200
come into an intimate personal relationship with somebody, there's, there's a different

559
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:35,580
level of trust needed.

560
00:30:35,580 --> 00:30:41,800
So what was that about Rob that you saw that allowed you to grow in trust with him?

561
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,240
Rob loved God.

562
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,420
He led the high school boys group at the church he went to.

563
00:30:47,420 --> 00:30:49,280
He went to a different church.

564
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:53,660
Most of the people in that adult singles group, I would say 50% of them went to different

565
00:30:53,660 --> 00:30:56,280
churches than where we were meeting.

566
00:30:56,280 --> 00:31:04,920
He was very committed to that, to leading those boys, those high school boys.

567
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:12,480
And I could see that in his heart that he loved and he wasn't fickle in that, you know,

568
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:18,480
he would give up leading his group just to go do something else with a, you know, fun

569
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:19,780
thing.

570
00:31:19,780 --> 00:31:20,780
He wasn't like that.

571
00:31:20,780 --> 00:31:22,720
He was very trustworthy.

572
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,240
Whatever he said he would do.

573
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:26,640
And he had a job.

574
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,400
He could support himself.

575
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:34,160
And I thought he was a handsome guy, but I wasn't going on looks to be honest with you.

576
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:35,160
I really...

577
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:36,400
You were over that.

578
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:37,400
I was over that.

579
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:38,400
You realized the shallowness of it.

580
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:39,400
Yes.

581
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,760
And I didn't, and I wasn't looking to get married.

582
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:46,860
I had been there and, you know, my marriage was horrible.

583
00:31:46,860 --> 00:31:49,100
My parents' marriage was horrible.

584
00:31:49,100 --> 00:31:52,440
I just was not looking to get married again.

585
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:54,760
And Rob pursued me.

586
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:59,880
He wasn't, when he first asked me out, you know, it was six weeks before he asked me

587
00:31:59,880 --> 00:32:05,920
out the second time, which I joke him on this, that he asked my second date with him.

588
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:11,240
Where we spent the first day was six hours up in one of the little towns from here.

589
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:16,680
I can't believe a six hour first or eight hour first date, you know, out of town.

590
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,680
I don't know.

591
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:23,880
He was crazy or I was crazy to think that we, you know, first date could go eight hours.

592
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,500
And we had a great time.

593
00:32:25,500 --> 00:32:31,240
And then six weeks later we went on our second date, which happened to be Valentine's Day.

594
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:38,080
Now if you're a woman, Valentine's Day has some special connotations to it.

595
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:42,480
And my, the women I worked with at my office were all excited that I was going out for

596
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:43,480
Valentine's Day.

597
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,160
And I'm like, he doesn't know it's Valentine's Day.

598
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,540
I'm telling you, he doesn't know.

599
00:32:48,540 --> 00:32:53,560
His secretary at his work, I think asked him what he was doing for Valentine's Day or something.

600
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,840
And he didn't know when Valentine's Day was.

601
00:32:55,840 --> 00:33:00,160
And she told him, she goes, oh, he said, I'm going out with Bobby.

602
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:01,960
I've had date or something.

603
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:05,920
So he did not know that his second date was Valentine's Day.

604
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:10,640
You know, then our next date was a few weeks later and he was on the cruise to Bermuda,

605
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:11,640
Jodi.

606
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:16,960
And that's when he says he fell in love with me, was on that cruise to Bermuda.

607
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:20,600
Over Memorial Day, we went out of town with his family.

608
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:25,440
And then two days later, we went back where his family was staying.

609
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:28,880
They have a house on the water and they had a boat.

610
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:38,920
I took my sons and he spent all day, Memorial Day, 1998, teaching them to ski, water ski.

611
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:43,840
I just remember thinking he's a keeper because he spent all that time with my sons.

612
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:45,880
Such a kindhearted man.

613
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:46,880
You know him.

614
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:47,880
I do.

615
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:48,880
He is very kind.

616
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:54,040
And that's when you say at the beginning when you were saying that God, you know, sometimes

617
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,640
we get off the path or whatever.

618
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:58,400
And God got me back.

619
00:33:58,400 --> 00:33:59,520
You know, I don't know.

620
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,520
It's amazing how God works.

621
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:07,160
I don't know how I would have ever met him, Rob, if I hadn't gone through all these other

622
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:08,160
things.

623
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:12,640
And you and Rob did get married not long after all of this began.

624
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:19,120
From then on, God has had you in a wide, beautiful place where your talents and your giftings

625
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:20,680
have had freedom to blossom.

626
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:25,440
I mean, you went from having to work four jobs down to just one.

627
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:29,680
Actually had time to pursue some of those desires that were on your heart.

628
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,960
One of those has even turned into a ministry of sorts.

629
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:33,960
Sure about your quilting.

630
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:40,800
I sew, I make quilts and I love getting this fabric and making something of it.

631
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:45,440
I don't do like huge artistic quilts.

632
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:51,480
I love to give a quilt to somebody so they can think that God loves them, that they can

633
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:57,240
wrap themselves in it and they're in a difficult time and they know that God cares for them.

634
00:34:57,240 --> 00:35:00,600
I've had friends go through cancer treatment.

635
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:02,920
Some survive, some haven't.

636
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:10,640
Dear friends, I've had people lose husbands or people lose a wife or someone lose a wife.

637
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:18,240
I've had friends with parents that have died unexpectedly, people that have lost children.

638
00:35:18,240 --> 00:35:24,560
And I just want to show them that God has not forgotten them and that he loves them.

639
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:29,000
I will make a quilt for them and I put a Bible verse on them.

640
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:33,040
Usually it's Bible verses that really mean something to me, a scripture.

641
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:39,520
But I ask God, please give me a verse to put on the back of this quilt for this person.

642
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:44,800
And I've had so many people say, you know, I love that verse that you put on my quilt.

643
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:53,120
And I just want them to feel God hugging them in a way that they know God cares about them.

644
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:54,320
God cares about us.

645
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,060
He created us.

646
00:35:56,060 --> 00:36:01,200
He knit us together in our mother's womb, regardless of what anybody says.

647
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:04,520
He designed us for a reason and purpose.

648
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,460
He made me a woman.

649
00:36:06,460 --> 00:36:07,920
He made Jodi a woman.

650
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:13,360
He made my husband a man, made my son's male for a reason.

651
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:16,240
He created all of us with a purpose.

652
00:36:16,240 --> 00:36:19,280
We all have a purpose in this world.

653
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:25,120
And I just want people to know that as we walk through life, things do not always turn

654
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:28,680
out like we think they should have.

655
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:30,320
And God takes all of that.

656
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:31,560
Nothing is wasted.

657
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,560
Nothing we go through is wasted.

658
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:35,040
He uses it all.

659
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:40,200
And I just want people to know that God hugs them with a quilt.

660
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:46,800
And over and over again, you've seen the reality of that impressed on the people who've received

661
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:47,800
these quilts.

662
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:48,800
Yes.

663
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,480
I remember one of my friends, Barry, I worked with.

664
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:58,960
He was diagnosed with cancer, just unbeknownst to him that even had this growth.

665
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:03,640
You know, I think God took him in like the space of, what, eight months or something.

666
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,840
He's a strong Christian man.

667
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:09,440
But I remember thinking, I really want to make Barry a quilt.

668
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:14,400
I want him to know how much he means to me and how much he means to God.

669
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:16,040
Not that I can speak for God.

670
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:17,200
We do in many ways.

671
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,640
God calls us to be his hands and feet in love.

672
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,320
So, yes, we are.

673
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:23,880
I made Barry a quilt.

674
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:28,720
I knew he couldn't have visitors because his immune system was down.

675
00:37:28,720 --> 00:37:33,240
And I didn't really know where he lived exactly because he had moved across the river.

676
00:37:33,240 --> 00:37:36,200
And so I just called and said, listen, I've just got something.

677
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,160
I'm just going to leave it on your porch.

678
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:41,000
And I got there and I rang the bell and his wife answered the door.

679
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:44,680
And I said, I know, you know, Barry can't have any visitors.

680
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:46,280
This is for him.

681
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:49,320
And he came to the door and he saw and he wrapped it around.

682
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,320
I could still see him standing there.

683
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,720
He said, I was so cold today.

684
00:37:53,720 --> 00:37:57,200
I just can't believe that you brought this today of all days.

685
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,840
I can just still see him wrapped around there.

686
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:00,840
Yeah.

687
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:01,840
That's just one example.

688
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:07,760
But I made four quilts over Christmas and two of one color, two of another.

689
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:12,760
And I asked God, two friends asked me to make quilts for their friends that were going through

690
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:13,760
cancer treatment.

691
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:19,160
And I like, OK, I had enough fabric to make four, two of each color.

692
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:20,640
And I didn't know what color.

693
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,880
I didn't know which quilt to give to what person.

694
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:26,960
And I just said a name, you know, just say Mary.

695
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,000
And I pulled a piece of fabric out of the bag.

696
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:30,920
OK, say this is Mary's quilt.

697
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:32,000
This is Jane's quilt.

698
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:33,960
This is Betty's or whoever.

699
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:35,160
These are made up names.

700
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:41,480
Those quilts, when the one friend gave it to her friend, she couldn't believe it.

701
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:43,240
It matched what was in her house.

702
00:38:43,240 --> 00:38:50,000
And it was astounding that God took each of these quilts, the colors.

703
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:54,920
And the one woman, I never met, husband works with Rob and she's been going through cancer

704
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:58,440
treatment for several years and she had gotten pretty bad.

705
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,720
And she just was astounded at her quilt.

706
00:39:01,720 --> 00:39:03,440
She'd never received anything.

707
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,440
She said like this ever in her life.

708
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:09,680
And God's actually worked miracles in her life of healing.

709
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:11,400
I've been praying for her.

710
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:12,400
God heals.

711
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:13,400
Yes.

712
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,960
A year ago, I was in the hospital.

713
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:16,960
I'd gotten really sick.

714
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:18,080
I had pneumonia.

715
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:22,400
I hadn't eaten anything for 10 or 14 days and didn't get out of bed.

716
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,040
And I ended up in the hospital and was told I had pneumonia.

717
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:28,680
And this is in the middle of COVID.

718
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:30,720
Never tested positive for COVID.

719
00:39:30,720 --> 00:39:34,560
I went to see my doctor and she was telling me, how did you get here today?

720
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:38,120
And I told her, she said, well, you need to get your husband to then to take you to the

721
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,600
emergency room because you are in AFib.

722
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:45,760
I ended up in the hospital with AFib and I'd never had heart problems in my life.

723
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,060
I didn't even know what AFib was.

724
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When I left the hospital, I was in there four days and went and followed up with a heart

725
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:53,600
doctor.

726
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:58,760
And that's another thing that God answered prayer before we even speak it.

727
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With COVID, you can't get in to see a doctor.

728
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You can't get in to see a heart doctor for three months.

729
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And I needed to see him, you know, in the next couple of weeks.

730
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And an appointment opened up, two appointments opened up the next day.

731
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The doctor said, well, we need to do a cardioversion.

732
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I think it is where, I think that's what it is when they shock your heart back into rhythm.

733
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So that night I'm laying in bed and I'm like, God, I can handle the cardioversion, but you're

734
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going to have to help me get through the IV because they couldn't find my veins when I

735
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was in the hospital.

736
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And I'm laying in bed that night and you know, please God heal me.

737
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And I don't know that it was instantly, but sometime during that night I was laying there

738
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and I felt this two bumps, two, just like that, two thumps in my heart.

739
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Wow.

740
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And I'm laying there and I'm like, I wonder if God just healed me.

741
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I wonder if God just healed my heart.

742
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And I had really outright prayed take away the AFib.

743
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I just said, help me through this.

744
00:40:56,360 --> 00:41:02,100
So January 4th, I got into the heart hospital area and they hooked me up to all these machines

745
00:41:02,100 --> 00:41:05,760
and the nurses say to me, well, what are you here for?

746
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:09,360
I said, well, I have AFib and I got to get that cardioversion.

747
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:11,360
Because I thought, you know, they were just double checking.

748
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They said, you don't have AFib.

749
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There's nothing wrong with you.

750
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And I said, well, are you sure?

751
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Because this is why they put me here.

752
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And she goes, yep.

753
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:22,560
I said, well, I said this, I said, well, then God's healed me.

754
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:26,480
And so they went and got the doctor and he couldn't understand it.

755
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:30,080
I mean, he was all ready to do their little procedure.

756
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,320
And I told him, I said, God's healed me.

757
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:37,280
And they had me wear a monitor for two weeks and no problems.

758
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:41,200
And it's a year later and no problems.

759
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Praise God.

760
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God, God heals.

761
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He does heal.

762
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He does heal.

763
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:49,840
Well, Bobby, you have really gone through the fire in your life and have come out to

764
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:52,480
tell the tale, but you haven't just come through it.

765
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You have come filled with gratitude.

766
00:41:54,720 --> 00:41:56,920
I love the poem that you shared with me the other day.

767
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I'd never heard it before.

768
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And so I'm going to read it for our listeners and then just ask you to share a little bit

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of the overflowing blessings from God that you've seen in your life.

770
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You've been sharing some of them, but maybe just one more.

771
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And this poem will be posted in our show notes.

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The poem is entitled, Drinking from My Saucer.

773
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And it was written by a gentleman named John Paul Moore.

774
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It goes, I've never made a fortune and it's probably too late now, but I don't worry about

775
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that much.

776
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:26,580
I'm happy anyhow.

777
00:42:26,580 --> 00:42:30,000
And as I go along life's way, I'm reaping better than I sow.

778
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I'm drinking from my saucer because my cup has overflowed.

779
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:39,200
Haven't got a lot of riches and sometimes the going's tough, but I've got loving ones

780
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:41,600
around me and that makes me rich enough.

781
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I thank God for his blessings and the mercies he's bestowed.

782
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:50,600
I'm drinking from my saucer because my cup has overflowed.

783
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:57,480
Oh, remember time, times when things went wrong, my faith wore somewhat thin, but all

784
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:03,600
at once the dark clouds broke and sun peeped through again.

785
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So Lord, help me not to gripe about the tough rose that I've hoed.

786
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I'm drinking from my saucer because my cup has overflowed.

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If God gives me strength and courage when the way grows steep and rough, I'll not ask

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00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:19,560
for other blessings.

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00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:26,120
I'm already blessed enough and may I never be too busy to help others bear their loads.

790
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Then I'll keep drinking from my saucer because my cup has overflowed.

791
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I love that poem.

792
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:36,320
I was riding down the highway in November.

793
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:42,680
I don't really listen to much Christian teaching on the radio, but I just stopped on one of

794
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:46,680
the radio stations and this man was given a sermon.

795
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,800
I think it's Dennis Swanberg, I think.

796
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:50,440
I might have his name wrong.

797
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:55,800
He refers to himself as a swan or his friends and he was given a sermon about building shade

798
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:56,800
trees.

799
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:02,880
I think it was his great grandfather planted trees and he died at a very young age, in

800
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his 20s or 30s, so he never got to enjoy the shade trees.

801
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He was just talking about how it's like a pay it forward type of thing.

802
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:20,760
We invest and sow in life so that those that come after us will know God, will know God's

803
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:22,600
blessings to us.

804
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:23,980
God has blessed me.

805
00:44:23,980 --> 00:44:25,640
That's where I heard this poem.

806
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God has blessed me so much.

807
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:32,840
We pray, we sing that song, feel my cup, Lord, fill it up, come and quench the thirsty feeling

808
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:39,080
of my soul, bread of heaven, fill me till I want no more, fill my cup.

809
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:40,520
God has filled my cup.

810
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:44,880
My cup is so overflowing that I can't even drink from it.

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I can't drink from my cup.

812
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:48,680
I can only drink from the saucer.

813
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:54,480
It is overflowing when I think of all that God has done for me and what he's brought

814
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:55,480
me through.

815
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,280
You know, I feel old.

816
00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:59,280
I'm 65.

817
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:01,120
That's really not old, really.

818
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:04,680
And I don't know what direction God has for me for in the future.

819
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But I will tell you, looking in the past, that God has never let me down.

820
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He says not to worry about what you wear, what you eat, what you drink.

821
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I've never gone without a roof over my head.

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00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,000
I've never gone without clothes.

823
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:20,960
I've never gone without food.

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00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:23,560
Sometimes I felt like I never had a friend, but that's not true.

825
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:25,640
I have friends for 50 some years.

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I have two friends, Kim and Esther, and I have friend Becky, that all I have to do.

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And these are friends that are 50 plus years.

828
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And then I have newer friends that are 25 years, like you, and Ann, and some others.

829
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God has blessed me beyond understanding.

830
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:44,560
I have a home.

831
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:47,600
I have two homes, actually.

832
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My husband and I, we built a sort of like a retreat home.

833
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:58,000
We hope to have people come to and share their going through hard times in their life.

834
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,800
God outfitted that home through COVID.

835
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:04,440
He had to start that home like a week before COVID started.

836
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:06,640
So we built this second house.

837
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:08,880
And you literally built the second house.

838
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:09,880
We did.

839
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:10,880
We did.

840
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:11,880
Once it was-

841
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:13,240
Your blood, sweat, and tears, but it is a remarkable story.

842
00:46:13,240 --> 00:46:14,240
Yes.

843
00:46:14,240 --> 00:46:16,400
Once it was in the dry, we built this house.

844
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:18,480
And that's another podcast all to itself.

845
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,480
I believe in tithing.

846
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I just believe in tithing.

847
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,660
I believe you can't out give God.

848
00:46:24,660 --> 00:46:25,920
You just can't.

849
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I'm drinking from a saucer because I can't even get to the cup.

850
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:35,640
The blessings from God are so much that I can't even get to the cup, Jody.

851
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:40,040
It's just, it's whatever's overflowing the cup is what I'm living with.

852
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:43,880
And you know, I think part of that, you know, Bobby, you've learned to have that heart of

853
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:48,240
gratitude for the little things that God was doing, even in the hard times of your life.

854
00:46:48,240 --> 00:46:53,800
You recognize the hand, you are grateful for it, and you thanked him for it.

855
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:56,560
And God inhabits the praises of his people.

856
00:46:56,560 --> 00:47:03,760
And when we enter God's courts with thanksgiving and we give him praise, he does come and his

857
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,040
presence changes everything.

858
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:10,880
And it might not be instantaneous, sometimes is, like healing your heart.

859
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:14,800
Sometimes it's over time, but God is just so good and faithful.

860
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:21,520
Bobby, as we close, I love to ask my guests what woman in the Bible is inspired or encouraged

861
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:25,480
or taught you something and is the one that comes to mind for you and why?

862
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:29,640
All the women in the Bible, they're in there for a reason.

863
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:30,880
They loved God.

864
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:33,840
I find myself in Martha.

865
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:39,840
She was the sister, Lazarus' sister, that was the busy one, but she loved God and God

866
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:40,840
loved her.

867
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,320
And God loved Lazarus and he loved Mary.

868
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:46,480
She asked Martha, who do you think that I am?

869
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:53,400
Because when Lazarus, her brother, was dying, she had told God if he, Jesus, if he had been

870
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:56,400
there, Lazarus would not have died.

871
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:57,440
She told him that.

872
00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:02,400
So she was on a speaking relationship with Jesus.

873
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:08,680
She was his friend enough to tell him, if he had been here, he wouldn't have died.

874
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:13,040
Think about how many friends you can say, be blunt with them and say, well, if you had

875
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,120
done this, this wouldn't happen.

876
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,240
And then God asked her, who do you say I am?

877
00:48:17,240 --> 00:48:18,920
And she said, you're Jesus Christ.

878
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:20,280
You're the Son of God.

879
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:22,880
She knew who he was.

880
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:25,520
In the midst of really a painful time in her life.

881
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:31,480
She tended to be busy and she was a hostess and Mary, her sister, would sit at Jesus'

882
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:36,480
feet and Martha, I can see myself saying this, why don't you tell her to get up and help

883
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:37,480
me?

884
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,600
I can see me saying this.

885
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:43,600
Martha really had a heart that she loved God and she knew who he was.

886
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:49,760
And so sometimes I think I just get so much into doing that, you know, I just sometimes

887
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,640
need to sit back and listen to God.

888
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:55,800
And that's sort of how I relate to her.

889
00:48:55,800 --> 00:49:02,920
And I've tried recently to really sit back and especially in the mornings, I just sit

890
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:09,600
and with my Bible and my devotional stuff and just try and hear God.

891
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:12,000
That's a good lesson for all of us.

892
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:18,520
So Bobby referenced Romans 2:28 earlier, the New Living Translation reads, and we know

893
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:23,320
that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are

894
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:26,300
called according to his purpose for them.

895
00:49:26,300 --> 00:49:30,320
As she said, nothing you do in God's economy is wasted.

896
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:32,160
That doesn't mean difficult times don't come.

897
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:36,200
In fact, James 1:2 says that troubles will come.

898
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:40,320
God doesn't send the trouble, but because we live in a fallen world, we will encounter

899
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:41,720
trouble of various kinds.

900
00:49:41,720 --> 00:49:48,080
The beautiful and encouraging thing is though that God will work it all out to shape us

901
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:50,200
and make us more like him.

902
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:54,640
If we allow him to do so in the midst of her trouble, Bobby clung to the Lord.

903
00:49:54,640 --> 00:50:01,080
She looked to him as her provider, her protector, her peace for really whatever she needed.

904
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:02,360
And she still does.

905
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:08,320
As she has trusted and praised him in spite of her circumstances, God reformed her self-image

906
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:11,800
and brought her to a wide, beautiful place.

907
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:17,000
Her cup overflows and dear one, God wants to do the same for you.

908
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:21,680
Bobby, would you take a moment and pray for everyone who has listened to your amazing

909
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:22,680
God story?

910
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:28,360
Yeah, Father God, I thank you for this opportunity to share your story and your testimony, my

911
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:31,720
testimony of your work in my life.

912
00:50:31,720 --> 00:50:39,080
And I just pray, Holy Spirit, there's somebody out there that needs to hear this.

913
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:41,600
It's just a regular old story for me.

914
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:47,960
I am just a regular person and I love God with all my heart and I could not do life

915
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:50,640
without you, Father God.

916
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:56,960
And I just pray that you would just be an influence through that someone would be touched

917
00:50:56,960 --> 00:51:04,160
by what I've shared and that your testimony would mean that your word spoken would not

918
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:05,720
be returned void.

919
00:51:05,720 --> 00:51:09,280
And I just pray a blessing on Jodi and her family.

920
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:16,120
I pray that you would just expound her boundaries and that her ministry would go far and wide,

921
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:22,240
that you would anoint those that she speaks to and that her words would be your words

922
00:51:22,240 --> 00:51:28,480
and that she would, that you would just through her love many people.

923
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:31,680
And I pray for this ministry for the widows and orphans.

924
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:39,680
Lord God, there's many widows out there and there's orphans that are wondering, then do

925
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:40,680
you even care?

926
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:45,200
And they need Heavenly Father and they need to feel you in their presence.

927
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:51,160
And I just pray for your Holy Spirit to come and anoint these folks and those listening,

928
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:56,240
and Father, you would bless them that they would come to know you in a personal way,

929
00:51:56,240 --> 00:52:01,480
come to know your word and that you care for them and ask to send your Holy name.

930
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:02,480
Amen.

931
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:03,480
Amen.

932
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:04,920
Thank you for tuning in.

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00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:09,120
In our show notes at hergodstory.org, you will find scriptures and other information

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we talked about.

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00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:20,540
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Give us a call anytime at 855-459-CARE or email us at prayer@somebodycares.org.

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And now dear friends, I bless you with an adaptation of Psalm 23.

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May the Lord who is your shepherd be all you need.

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May he give you restful places and renew your strength.

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May you follow him closely along the right paths that bring honor to his name.

944
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:58,760
May you feel his protection, provision and comfort at all times, especially when you

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faced the enemy.

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And as his goodness and mercy overtake you, may your cup overflow with blessing too.

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