June 24, 2024

God Knows Your Name, Linda Znachko’s Story

God Knows Your Name, Linda Znachko’s Story

God deeply values you! Even before you were born, He set you apart for His divine plan. You CAN make a difference. Linda Znachko has received a unique revelation of these truths and a special mission from God. Join Linda and host Jodie Chiricosta as they discuss how saying "Yes!" to God helps us discover His purpose for our lives. You’ll hear how God is using Linda to save babies and be challenged to meet the needs the Lord shows you. God has equipped you to make a difference!

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Her God Story with Jodie Chiricosta

Our Guest: Linda Znachko

 

Linda Znachko is the founder of He Knows Your Name ministry and author of the nationally recognized and award winning book, He Knows Your Name, How One Abandoned Baby Inspired Me to Say YES to God. He Knows Your Name Ministry strives to ensure that every child receives a name in life and dignity and honor in death.

 

Founded in 2009, He Knows Your Name is rooted in the conviction that every life is sacred to God, and that babies are worthy-whether they took a breath or not. Linda has been called, not through her credentials, but God’s equipping, to be an advocate for life, strangely enough, at the grave.

 

She believes we have ALL been qualified by God to promote and protect life. That walking in our identity is foundational to everything else. After generations of a culture of death, we are living in a time where it is critical to value life. When we place value on life we get to the root of all cultural issues.

 

Linda partners with the organization “Safe Haven Baby Boxes” and has spent the last 8 years raising awareness and educating others about the Safe Haven Law and the Safe Haven Baby Box (SHBB) program.

 

She is a popular speaker at conferences and retreats and has been interviewed by numerous talk shows, news stations, and magazines.

 

Linda and her high school sweetheart, husband Steve, launched a Foundation, funding ministries around the globe. Steve and Linda attend Antioch Church in Indianapolis where they raised their 4 children. One of Linda’s greatest joys is being called “Honey” by her grandchildren.

 

Linda and Steve adopted their 5th child, Abigail, in 2020. Abigail lived 1 week in the NICU before going to heaven.

 

Key Thoughts and Scriptures:

 

Psalm 139:13 NIV For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.

 

Jeremiah 1:5 NIV “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

 

1 Peter 2:9 NIV But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.

 

Ephesians 2:10 NIV For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.

 

  • Even as a little girl, Linda had a longing to be near Jesus. Yet she felt she couldn’t find Him.
  • As an adult, she heard the gospel for the first time. She felt like she came alive because that’s what she’d been waiting to hear her whole life.
  • Linda learned that reading the Bible wasn’t just for Sundays.
  • She wanted every single thing she did to have eternal value.
  • When you immerse yourself in the Word of God, your outlook is transformed.

 

Linda realized this gospel is for everyone.

 

  • The best way to disciple your kids is to walk your faith out honestly.
  • Discipleship starts early and it’s really easy. It’s by modeling to your children what you believe and what’s important to you.
  • Every family needs to belong to a church and be involved in the community because we need to know who our people are.
  • Linda struggled with fear of man and being insecure. When she saw it in her kids, she pointed it out in herself. 
  • Then she went to the Word of God and showed them how God’s Word was building confidence in her to live intentionally for Him rather than for herself.
  • You have to say no to things in order to say yes to God.
  • “Every single decision I make about my children, I need to run through the filter of prayer to ask God. Because God still speaks and He wants to tell us how to raise our children.”
  • Our children can hear from God. There’s no junior Holy Spirit here.
  • God will bring families into oneness.

 

John 14:16-17 NKJV And I will pray the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may abide with you forever— the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees Him nor knows Him; but you know Him, for He dwells with you and will be in you.

 

John 15:4 NKJV Abide in Me, and I in you…

 

  • The covenant of marriage and oneness is so important to God that He will build your faith separately and together and as a family through all your moments.

 

Finances can be such an area of tension in families, but early on Linda and her husband established a philosophy of generosity. 

 

  • In order to give, you have to have the money to give.
  • “We obeyed before we had the eyes to see what God was doing.”
  • Even when Linda didn’t grasp what God was revealing to her, she could still be confident that He was always with her.
  • She realized the weight of knowing that once you learn something, you become responsible for it.
  • We are not supposed to do it all. But we all have an assignment with our name on it.
  • Every child deserves to be buried and have a beautiful celebration of life.
  • “What organization? It’s just me. And the Lord was like, it’s us, and we’re doing this.”
  • God taught Linda how to speak legacy over each baby that she buried. And as she’s done that, God has given her new assignments that actually help fulfill the legacies that the Lord has spoken over these children. 
  • No life is in vain.
  • Amelia means ‘defender’.
  • Our names are on purpose.

 

Isaiah 45:4-6 NIV …I summon you by name and bestow on you a title of honor…

 

  • Our legacy and our purpose is rooted in our names.
  • Everybody’s looking for answers and God has the answers. And when we’re able to present God’s answers to the world, they take notice.
  • God has been taken out of schools and churches and monuments are being removed from parks. But the only place that it is still sacred and okay to have a Bible is at the grave for a funeral.
  • Every life matters and life begins at the point of conception.
  • When you give worth, you receive worth. And when you give dignity and honor, you receive dignity and honor.

 

When we do what God has called us to do and we show the world His compassion and love, they’re hungry for it.

 

  • Most people want to be invited into the purposes and plans that God has for them because they want to live on purpose too. 
  • God is a God of promises and He keeps His promises. 

 

Revelation 19:10 NKJV ….Worship God! For the testimony of Jesus is the spirit of prophecy.

 

  • “If I live my life worshiping Him and sharing the testimony of Jesus, the results are up to Him and not me. So I can live free and just do what God calls me to do and let Him do the rest. And that really lightens the burden.”
  • Focusing on who God is takes us from where we are, gets our eyes off our circumstances, and puts our focus on Him.

 

Esther’s Story

 

Esther NIV

 

  • Esther modeled for Linda what it’s like to be a woman in our generation who is being called to save something.
  • Like Esther, we can have that boldness before the throne of grace with Jesus and our access has been granted.

 

Isaiah 6:5-7 NIV “Woe to me!” I cried. “I am ruined! For I am a man of unclean lips, and I live among a people of unclean lips, and my eyes have seen the King, the Lord Almighty.” Then one of the seraphim flew to me with a live coal in his hand, which he had taken with tongs from the altar. With it he touched my mouth and said, “See, this has touched your lips; your guilt is taken away and your sin atoned for.”

 

  • Isaiah knew he wasn’t worthy to represent God in and of himself.
  • Satan will heap all kinds of thoughts on us about our unworthiness. But when the seraphim of God touched Isaiah, God made him clean and changed his identity from unworthy to worthy.

 

Isaiah 6:8-9 NIV Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, “Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?” And I said, “Here am I. Send me!”…

 

  • We each have the opportunity to encounter God and receive a new identity.

 

Hebrews 3:15 NIV …“Today, if you hear his voice, do not harden your hearts…

 

James 1:27 NLT Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you.

 

1 Chronicles 22:11 NIV “Now, my son, the Lord be with you, and may you have success and build the house of the Lord your God, as he said you would.

 

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Transcript

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Hey friends, welcome to the Her God's Story podcast where you will always hear a great story to

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encourage and inspire you in your walk with the Lord. I am so glad you tuned in. I'm your host,

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Jodie Chiricosta, ministry leader at Somebody Cares America, an international author and

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God knows you, dear friend. Psalm 139:13 tells us that God created our inmost being. He knit you

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and me together in our mother's womb. In chapter 1 verse 5 of his namesake book, the Lord tells

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Jeremiah, before I formed you in the womb, I knew you. Before you were born, I set you apart. I

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appointed you as a prophet to the nations. God knows each and every one of us from before we

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were born and He sets us apart for His divine purpose. Not only that, but we are so valuable to

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Him. 1 Peter 1:9 says that we are called God's special possession. And in Ephesians 2 10,

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we're told we are God's handiwork created in Christ Jesus to do good works which God prepared

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in advance for us to do. God has given my guest Linda Znachko a unique revelation of those truths

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and he has prepared a unique work for her to do. Linda is the founder of He Knows Your Name

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Ministry and author of the award-winning book, He Knows Your Name, how one abandoned baby inspired

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me to say yes to God. He Knows Your Name Ministry strives to ensure that every child receives a name

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and dignity and honor in death. You will hear through Linda's story how God prepared her for

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this special calling and leads her day by day. You'll also be amazed how God is using the work

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she does to draw people to Christ. Linda believes we have all been qualified by God to promote and

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protect life, that walking in our identity is foundational to everything else. Linda is a

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popular speaker at conferences and retreats and has been interviewed on many local and national

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shows including The Steve Harvey Show, Fox 59, Life Today, In the Market with Janet Parcell,

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and many more. Her ministry has also been featured multiple times on various news outlets.

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She and her husband Steve attend Antioch Church in Indianapolis where they raised their four

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children. One of Linda's greatest joys is being called Honey by her grandchildren. Welcome, Linda.

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Thank you. It's so good to be here with you, Jodie. I love all those verses you chose. You're just

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like singing my song over here. Well, Linda, you had a yearning to know God when you were young,

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but you didn't really understand how to do that until you were in your mid-20s. So share a little

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about your early years, how you met your husband, and what eventually drew you both to Christ.

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Well, I was raised in a loving family, middle child of seven kids, went to Catholic school,

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lived in a community that was very parish-centered in our Catholic community, which was really such

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a blessing because I felt really known by my parents' friends and known in that area where

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we lived is a suburb of Chicago. I just yearned for God. When things got crazy at my house,

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I would just walk two blocks away by myself because we were allowed to do that in the 60s,

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and just go sit in the church because the doors were always open. I would just sit in there and

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be still. We didn't know at the time what it meant to be an introvert, but I knew I needed

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solitude. That was a place where I could go sit and be quiet and rest, and I was really grateful

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for that. Then I went to high school, public school, and met my husband, who was my high school

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sweetheart. We were not believers at the time. We were both raised going to church, traditional

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families of faith, and had the values of the Christian faith, but no understanding of God's

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word. Off to college, we went to separate schools and had no idea what was going to happen with our

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relationship. We had no conditions on it at all. I went to a public school, Northern Indiana, and

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went on a gymnastics scholarship, which Steve and I were both gymnasts, and loved that. But then I

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had an injury. Then I decided to move home and go to a small school in Chicago, which was now

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Mundelein College and is now connected to Loyola University. If you know where Loyola is, it's

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right on the water in the Chicago area, and it's got a beautiful campus. I loved being there,

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but I didn't go to church those years. I just was like, I didn't have a faith of my own,

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but I, as a little girl, had a longing to be near Jesus. That's the only way I can put it,

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and yet I could never find him. I would ask the nuns about him, and they would give me really

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random answers. I just wasn't satisfied with them, but I just had a longing, and I didn't know

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where to find him. I didn't know who to ask. I didn't hear anybody talking about Jesus,

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and certainly not his word. I just kind of wandered, I would say. Steve and I got married,

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and we both wanted to go to church, but it was like, which denomination should we go to?

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Doesn't really matter. Then by some different circumstances, landed in a Bible-believing,

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Bible-preaching church here in Indianapolis. I heard the gospel for the first time. I felt like

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I absolutely came alive, because I was like, that's what I've been waiting to hear my whole life.

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Really, the part of the gospel I never really grabbed hold of was that I was a sinner,

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and that I was saved by grace. I believed all the tenets of Jesus that I had heard all my life

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growing up. That he was born from a virgin, born in a stable, like the wise men, the whole school

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story of all of his birth in Bethlehem, and that he came from a virgin. All of that, I was completely

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fine with and accepted like a child. Then here I was at 26 years old, sitting in this church as a

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new mom, and I heard the gospel, and I realized, oh, I actually need Jesus. When I understood that

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the Holy Spirit could live inside of me, the longing just was like this thing that I was

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experiencing. The longing just was like this aha moment for me, and I accepted the Lord, and

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everything was different after that. So how did life change? You said everything was different,

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but give us some examples of the change that happened when you made Jesus Lord of your life.

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I became aware of people around me that were reading the Bible, and I never knew a person that

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read a Bible. I had people around me telling me they were Christians, and I was like, I never

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heard anyone say they were Christian. I only heard growing up people saying, I'm Catholic,

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I'm Episcopalian, I'm this, I'm that. So I was just this hunger for understanding, why do you call

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yourself that? What does that mean to you? Why are you reading the Bible? I thought only certain

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people could read the Bible, and it was then held under glass, and you only did that on Sundays.

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You know, and I all of a sudden was around a community of women as a new mom who had just

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left the workplace, found myself as a stay at home mom, like with all this time on my hands,

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and the fellowship of sisters in Christ flooded my life, and I just sat at their feet and listened

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to them talk. I went to Bible study, I went to women's conferences, I started reading all

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different books, listening to all different music. Everything that had been a part of my life, kind

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of on the outside, was completely changed, and I had like a hunger and thirst for it, and I remember

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thinking, oh my goodness, I'm 26 years old, I've wasted my whole life listening to all this other

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stuff and reading all this other stuff, and never really praying and all the things, and I was like,

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oh my gosh, nothing I've been doing has eternal value, and I want every single thing I do to have

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eternal value and to matter, and that passion rooted in me at 26 years old honestly has not

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stopped, and now I'm 63 years old, and I still feel like the chase, I'm chasing after more of God

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every day. So you mentioned that you really immersed yourself in the Word of God. You started going to

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Christian fellowships and Bible studies, and that changed your perspective on the world.

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When you start listening to different things and you start reading different things, your perspective,

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your outlook totally is transformed. Tell us a little bit about that and what that perspective

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changed in you, how that occurred. Well, you read the Bible and you realize that God is really

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different than you, and you learn a lot about yourself, and I learned a lot about the way I

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was behaving, the things I had spent my time doing, the people I was hanging around, whether it was

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from gossiping to just spending time on frivolous things or money on frivolous things.

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You realize the temporal value of my life really smacked me in the face, and I also started realizing

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that no one in my family talked like that or started knowing the things that I was learning

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and knew from the Bible, and I would go hang around my sisters and go be around my parents,

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and I was like, I don't relate to any of that anymore, and I could see myself in them as being

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very different. I was like, wow, God is really starting to transform me from the inside out,

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and he's impacting me because one of the things I realized was, wait a second, this gospel is for

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everyone. I've never heard it. I don't think my family's ever heard it, and everyone needs to know

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this, and I had to learn. I mean, I had a real hunger for evangelism. I went to evangelism classes,

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and I thought, how can I talk about my faith now everywhere I go because everyone needs to know

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this? And so as the first Christian in my family, it was quite a rude awakening as my family and my

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sisters especially started to see me change. Everything about me was different. The desires

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of my heart, the way I talked about God, the worship music in my car. If you're going to

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drive with me in my car somewhere, then you're going to listen to my music, and they just saw

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that, and the questions just came firing at me. That's just all I can say, and I loved talking

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about the Lord. So you and Steve also realized that you needed to disciple your children

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in the Word of God. You are a very intentional person, and you applied that intentionality

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in raising your kids. Share some of the ways that you did that.

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Yeah, that's so good. I think I remember someone saying to me that the best way to

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disciple your kids is to walk your faith out honestly. And when I had my first child,

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I mean, she was four months old when I became a believer, and I remember having the thought,

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like, I'm an infant like her, and I need to be discipled, and so does she. And we're doing this

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all differently. And she's going to have a Bible with her name on it, and she's going to see my

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Bible with highlights in it, and she's going to see it open every day. And so I realized

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discipleship starts early, and it's really easy. It's by modeling to your children what you believe

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and what's important to you. And it doesn't have to be formal and fancy. You know, I believe that

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every family needs to belong to a church and be involved in community and do life in community

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because we need to know who our people are. Life is hard. And the best thing we did was join a

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church and stay there for a really long time and raise our children around other families that are

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doing a lot of the same things, and not perfectly by any means, but just with this strong, honest

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desire to be honest with your faith and honest with what you're doing and growing and changing.

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And I struggled with fear of man and being insecure and just the regular things of life.

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I did that in front of my kids. I mean, when I saw it in them, I pointed it out in myself,

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and then I went to the Word of God and showed them how God's Word was building confidence in

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me to live intentionally for Him rather than for me. And so I was realizing also that as I said no

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to Linda and said no to things in the world, and even said no to things in my extended family

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because we had other things we were doing or priorities, I was showing my kids that you have

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to say no to things in order to say yes to God. And I didn't realize it at the time, but as a

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young Christian, I started exercising my yes muscles with those little two pound weights.

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were with me. And we together were walking with God, doing it according to His Word, and also

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seeking Him and finding Him in places that were really satisfying. And nothing else was satisfying

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me anymore in the world. It was more like I need to be a part of what God's doing everywhere,

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like from sharing the gospel. If I'm pushing my stroller down the walk and the Lord, just my

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spirit gets convicted to share the gospel with someone, I stop and do that. And my children sit

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there and watch me and listen to me do that. They were raised around that with me. And I just feel

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like it was the best way for me to teach them in the unstructured ways of life, how to disciple

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people into the kingdom.

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You know, I love that you were a vibrant part of a church, but you didn't leave all of the

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discipleship of your children to the church. You didn't abdicate that. You knew that as a parent,

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that was your responsibility first and foremost. Yeah, you want them to get it from other places,

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too, but the chief place that they're going to receive about the Lord and learn how to walk with

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God is in the home.

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Right. And Jodi, you bring up a great point because the other thing about that is we then

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ended up sending our children to Christian school. And we did that because my husband was on a

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mission trip to Ukraine. And he got on the airplane to come back to America and the newspaper

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headline said, prayer is taken out of public schools. That year, it was like, think about

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1992. And although I was at home with our children for the four weeks he was gone, and our oldest was

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in kindergarten, she was going to a Christian kindergarten headed to public school for first

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grade. And she carried her Bible around and openly talked about Jesus to people. And she came home

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after playing outside one day and just said, Mom, I guess I'm not going to cherry tree anymore.

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Because, you know, they don't teach Bible there. And my favorite book is the Bible and my favorite

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class is Bible. So how could I go to a school where I can't talk about the Bible? And I mean,

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it smacked me right in the face. And I thought, I didn't even ask God about that decision. I went

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to public school, I thought it'd be fine for her. And it was like, what a lesson in like every

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single decision I make about my children. I need to run through the filter of prayer to ask God

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because God still speaks and he wants to tell us how to raise our children. And I learned early

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that our children can hear from God. You know, there's no junior Holy Spirit here, like they can

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hear from God and our daughter actually led us into a decision to send our kids to private school.

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And what I realized even about that was that that too was not the only place of discipleship,

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right? Like the church isn't, the school isn't, yes, it's all, we're all pieces of a pie. But if

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we are not, Steve and I are not the filling, you know, we've got to be the apple cobbler in the

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middle because all the, it takes all the pieces. And I was just really thankful for that leading

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and how God taught me through that. Yeah. And I think it's so, uh, so like God that while

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the Lord was speaking to you through your daughter at home, God was speaking to Steve on an airplane

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home. So you were in agreement when he got home about what you needed to do. Right. He walked

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in the door and says, um, you know, we've got to talk about sending our kids to public school.

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Cause I don't think we're going to be doing that anymore. And I said, Oh my goodness,

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did our daughter Lauren say something to you because you cannot believe what she's been saying

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to me here at home. And yes, you're right. Like Steve and I became believers at the same time,

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just completely different routes. We just found ourselves there at the same time. And the same

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thing was with that decision. You know, he comes home and he feels like God stirred his heart that

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direction. Same with us at home. And we looked at each other like this, these are familiar movements

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of God in us, in our marriage and in our family that God, when we are prayerful and we walk a life

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of John 14 being filled with the Holy spirit and John 15, inviting in him, God will do that because

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the covenant of marriage and the oneness is so important to God that he is building our faith

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separately and together and as a family through all those moments. And then realizing as decisions

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continue to come through our lives, we can lean on God to do that same kind of thing and say,

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all right, how are you hearing God? How are you hearing God? Um, whether even in financial

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giving, sometimes we're like, you come up with a number, no, you come up with a number. I don't know

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what we should give. And then we both write a number on a piece of paper and show it to each other.

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And it's exact same amount. And we're like, God did it again. And so, you know, God loves to just

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teach us and kind of feed us, nourish us along in our faith journey so that we can be, do more

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together. Yeah. Another area that you walked in agreement, which really laid a foundation for

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what God wanted you to do in the future was in your finances. Finances can be such a, such an

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area of tension in families, but early on you all established a philosophy for your foundation,

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for your finances that, that allows you to do a whole lot more for the kingdom now.

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Explain what you guys do. Well, I think, you know, Steve, I believe God, one of his spiritual

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gifts definitely is generosity. And he has, but we didn't like know it at the time, but he has

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shown us that he knows it at the time. You know, really God was still developing everything in us,

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but early on Steve's business was very successful. And we were, you know, really realizing that we,

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we were acquiring a lot and he was doing really well and better than our peers. And here we were,

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like, we're putting braces on our kids, unable to go on vacation and send in private school.

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a glory, you know, that we have this kind of ease in our life.

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Steve had gone to Ukraine.

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He had a real desire to support Mission to Ukraine.

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Things were just like showing themselves and we were realizing that, you know, in order

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to give, you have to have the money to give, right?

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And so it was like, but if you spend it all, it's not there.

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And so how do we have the joy of giving and experience supporting ministries and coming

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alongside them and being honest and faithful in that journey?

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Because, you know, a lot of missionaries or people want you to be on their prayer team

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and they want to be in relationship with you and you give.

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I totally get that and it's wonderful.

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But we were overwhelmed with, we can give, but we can't be in relationship with you.

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Like we're maxed out with all the things we have to do, raising four children and Steve

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traveling in his business and everything plus ministry.

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of time we had to give it away in with the end of the year coming kind of thing or whatever.

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And the Lord just gave him a revelation of starting a foundation and choosing to cap

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our income and puts a certain amount in savings and then put the rest in the foundation where

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it's safe and secure.

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We can't touch it, but it's already designated for giving.

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out of the blue, you know, we want to support the money is there to do it.

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Steve's leadership and vision and his philosophy that he really was so ordained by God, we

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have this foundation and there it is.

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And I had no idea that then when I turned 49 years old, my kids were almost all out

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of the house, but God would invite me into a ministry that was going to take me on the

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road that it's taken me on in the last 15 years.

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But I've never had to fundraise in 15 years.

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that he brings me because I have the freedom because of this foundation we have.

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like we obeyed before we had the eyes to see what God was doing.

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And that's such a characteristic of the Lord anyway.

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But we've learned a lot over the years and we've been able to give generously with joy

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and realize that we would never have probably given away as much if we would have not done

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it this way because it's already set aside.

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been able to do or whatever?

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and do things across the world.

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I just like I don't have words for what God has done in that and how it has shored up

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our faith.

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And how, you know, you had no idea what would be God would be calling you to in the future

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when that foundation was started, but you knew it was the Lord.

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We don't know yet what he's going to do with it, but we know we're supplied for and God

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is supplying for the kingdom now through this foundation.

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Well, you know, even after you've been believers for a couple, you know, a couple of decades,

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you were still learning more and more about about how to hear from the Lord, honing your

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ability to hear him in particular, learning more about the Holy Spirit.

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And one of your sons really led the way.

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What happened?

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Share that story.

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Our son, Andrew, went to Baylor University and he started going to a church there.

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It was an Antioch Church.

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And oh, my goodness, he was on fire for the Lord and he had a conversion experience there

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that was transformational.

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And I mean, we just watched him and he'd come home and talk about God and talk about the

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adventures he was going on with the Lord and how God was casting vision for him over his

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life for the nations and for church and the importance of the community of church.

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And I saw him loving God's word and being blessed with more gifts of the spirit.

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And I was just we were so curious and a little taken off guard, like, wait a minute, what

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are all these people doing to our son?

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Like he's changing so fast we can't even our head is spinning, you know.

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And we just decided that we loved what we saw in him, that I just started getting on

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the phone with his college pastor or the other young adults that were going on missions trips

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with them for spring break.

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And I just was like, hey, I need to get to know you because you're spending a ton of

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time with my son.

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And I'm way up here in Indianapolis and you're in Texas.

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You know, this feels really far away and I need to feel close to what's happening while

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my son is growing and changing at such a rapid pace.

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their world mandate and going to their church and spending time with Andrew and his college

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ministry.

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And I mean, everything we we wanted to do, we just did to kind of jump in both feet.

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and their just their teaching that I felt so at home there.

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in me and with the knowledge of like the manifestation of the gifts and having just more language

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for things that I was seeing and feeling.

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other people talking about things just differently.

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of the things that I see are actually a prophetic gift I have now instead of just think I now

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I attribute it all to God rather than just think I'm thinking up these things because

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how important that has been in my ministry to understand that the things I started having

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the impressions in my heart for and the things the way I was hearing God about things were

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was him preparing me to do a ministry and do things that no one else has done like no

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one else in this country.

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I have not seen a blueprint for anything like what I'm doing.

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teaching me something, showing me something.

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I can have confidence as unfamiliar as this is as as crazy as some of this stuff is that

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I don't even understand he's showing me.

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I can have confidence that he's with me.

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And that took on a whole new meaning when I started walking with God through he knows

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your name ministry because I started just saying like as long as he's with me, I'll

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be okay as I go knock on this door and ask for this resource or talk to people about

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claiming a baby that's been found in a dumpster.

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So tell us how that all started.

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You're learning to hear from I mean, you were really had honed your your spiritual ears

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for hearing God's direction.

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And then in 2009, he invited you into something that required a huge yes from you.

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So share how that happened and where it's taken you.

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Well, my mom had just died in June and my daughter had been married the year before.

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I still had two kids at home.

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my kids kind of settled to like I said, to still at home.

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wearing only a diaper.

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And it grabbed hold of me so hard and tight that I I like could not move out of my chair.

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lot of them.

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state with a baby that's been found like this?

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criminal investigation doesn't find the DNA match for a parent.

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of the situation.

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And I realized there were no answers and that was just not good enough for me.

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And I also realized like the burden of, you know, when once you know something, you're

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responsible for it.

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That I mean, that's just something I really feel strongly about.

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Now I know watching the news is scary for everybody because there's so much that is

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so upsetting.

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And how do we impact the border and Ukraine and everything all over the world and the

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crime on our streets?

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Like no, we are not supposed to do it all, but I believe we all have an assignment with

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our name on it.

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And I knew that God was assigning this to me and that it required a yes from me.

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Now the yes started as a phone call.

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And when I called and the coroner said, well, you're the only one that's called.

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I was like, well, that felt like a message from heaven because you know, I know God calls

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us and I know that he assigns us things.

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And I felt like he was saying, this is yours to do something about.

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Now I really thought honestly, Jody, that this was like an episodic once and done situation.

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I was going to take care of the baby, make sure this baby was given a name and an honorable

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dignified burial.

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Because after just burying my mom, I felt the contrast, right?

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It burned in me that my mom was a child of God and deserved to be buried and have a beautiful

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celebration of life.

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And I thought this baby's a child of God.

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Of course this child deserves the same thing.

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And as I was having all those thoughts, the Lord, as he does, rips his economy upside

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down from what we're hearing and seeing.

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And he said, dough is not a name and a dumpster is not a grave and a diaper is not burial

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clothing.

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And it was like, I knew missionally exactly what to do.

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It was so clear to me.

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And when the coroner's office kept telling me week after week when I called every Friday

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for 13 months that no one else had called, that the criminal investigation was not coming

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up with anything, I was getting more and more reassured that this was for me to do.

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What I didn't expect was that the whole 13 months, more and more revelation was going

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to start coming to me through relationship at the coroner's office.

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By calling every Friday, I talked to everybody on the phone and I'm asking them who I can

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pray for and do you know Jesus?

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I'm talking to them, building relationships, and I'm becoming more and more aware of other

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things going on.

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Like there was another baby that they had and they wondered if my organization would

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take care of that baby since I was taking care of the other baby.

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And I just was like, I started weeping and I hung up the phone and I was like, I don't

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even know how to answer them.

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What organization?

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It's just me.

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And the Lord was like, it's us and we're doing this.

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And He told me, and your organization's, it's He knows your name.

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And I would have never thought in a million years back then, 15 years ago, this October,

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that the journey God would have me on would be to be claiming babies from the coroner's

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office, funeral homes, and hospitals that are left unclaimed, let alone the ones that

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are found outside.

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And so just two days ago, I buried, or Friday, I just buried two more babies.

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And so I have claimed 52 babies and celebrated all of their lives at the grave in almost

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15 years and done so much work for bereavement at hospitals for infant loss, advocated for

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the safe haven law.

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I mean, it just goes on and on and I just can't even get over the multiplication of

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what God is doing.

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As we were talking earlier, you shared with me that God taught you how to speak legacy

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over each baby that you buried.

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And as you've done that, God has given you new assignments that actually help fulfill

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those legacies that the Lord has spoken over these children that no life is in vain, right?

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Share a story or two about how God has led you in that because that is also so unique.

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Right.

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So the first baby was baby Nicholas and he obviously is the first one, I believe his

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legacy is he knows your name, ministry.

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And then, so that was in 2009.

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And then December 28th, 2014, a baby was found at Eagle Creek Park here wrapped in a blue

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sweatshirt.

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And she was found outside by a hiker on that freezing cold night.

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Obviously, we all know that no baby infant baby can survive being outside.

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And there was a fire station just two miles away.

402
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And clearly the mother did not know about the safe haven law.

403
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:28,960
And I, you know, all of it just came to me like there's a safe haven law to protect moms

404
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and give them options.

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00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,880
And yet this abandonment was chosen.

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Abandonment is criminal.

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I had already buried several babies.

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00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:42,000
And so I called the coroner and I said, you know, I want to take care of this baby.

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And she said, you know, we're probably going to do a quick discharge on this baby for a

410
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:49,080
lot of circumstances surrounding it.

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We're not going to find DNA on this baby.

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00:34:52,700 --> 00:34:57,000
And so I saw the sweatshirt that this baby was wrapped in and it said, Vincenzo University

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Aviation Department.

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00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,880
And so I knew I would name her Amelia.

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And I just went to the computer and Googled what does Amelia mean?

416
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And it means defender.

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00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:13,840
And I was like, Lord, what is she going to defend?

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Like what's this legacy?

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00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:19,880
You know, so to your question, it's like asking God that question and saying, I believe our

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names are on purpose.

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00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:28,680
I mean, I feel like the book of Isaiah, studying it early in my Christian life, was like it

422
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:34,240
was like a movie reel coming in front of me, like all the verses about I've summoned you

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by name and I bestow upon you a title of honor.

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That is our name and the Lord knows it.

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And I believe our legacy and our purpose is rooted in our names.

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00:35:45,100 --> 00:35:49,400
And so I just kept asking God and he told me the safe haven law.

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And I thought, well, we already have that.

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00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,800
I don't understand that because, you know, in talking to God, you know, it doesn't mean

429
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,680
I do it perfectly, but I do argue with him sometimes.

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00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:03,080
I said, you know, I don't understand this, you know, and it was just like, that's what

431
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it was.

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And at her funeral, literally, I was looking at the casket down in the grave.

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I'd handed it to the groundsman and he set it down in the grave.

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And I'm just standing there where everyone is throwing flowers on the baby grave.

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And I get a tap on my shoulder and it's Monica Kelsey.

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And she is the founder of the safe haven baby box ministry here in Indiana.

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00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:28,800
And she said, that's the problem and I have the solution.

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And she told me about the boxes that she was in process of creating and also getting legislation

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for.

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00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,820
And she said, would you come to the Senate and the House of Representatives and give

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00:36:38,820 --> 00:36:40,920
testimony about this baby?

442
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:46,440
Because being abandoned, obviously, that's criminal and we want to give moms other options,

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but we have to educate them and raise awareness.

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And so I did that with her and we passed the law here in Indiana.

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00:36:55,520 --> 00:37:01,040
And since that law has been passed and we've enhanced the safe haven law by Amelia's legacy,

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00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:03,960
her footprint is on the logo of the box.

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00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:09,720
Forty-three or five babies, forty-five babies have been safely surrendered in that box and

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00:37:09,720 --> 00:37:14,060
they all have been adopted and given medical care and families.

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00:37:14,060 --> 00:37:20,860
So we are like the adoption of babies who need to be safely surrendered are being done

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under the safe haven law.

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And all of the media I do, I use as education for that law.

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00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:31,840
And we are the only state in the country that can say that we have not had a deceased baby

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00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,960
found in our state in nine years since baby Amelia.

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She's been the last abandoned baby left outside in our state.

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00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:42,880
Abandonment is happening all over our country.

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And I believe that if we were doing a better job across the country raising awareness and

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00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,660
educating that wouldn't happen anymore.

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00:37:49,660 --> 00:37:56,120
So just explain briefly how these baby boxes work for people who don't live in Indiana.

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00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:57,120
Right.

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00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:01,560
So the law has been passed in about 10 other states and several other states have boxes

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and have had safe surrenders, fortunately, from New Mexico to Arkansas to Florida to

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Wisconsin's getting a box.

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00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:14,280
So there are about 220 boxes.

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Maybe 50 of them are outside of Indiana now.

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So it's rapidly moving.

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It's a movement.

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00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:23,440
So if you don't know what a safe haven baby box is, you're going to hear about it soon,

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00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:24,440
I'm sure.

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00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:25,960
But Google it because you need to know it.

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00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:30,840
The other thing that works really well about the ministry of safe haven baby boxes is their

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hotline.

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So it is a crisis hotline for any mother who needs anything.

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So they can tell her her options.

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00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:40,680
And that's always really helpful as well.

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00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,540
That is saving a lot of babies.

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00:38:42,540 --> 00:38:47,120
And it's also teaching people about the handoff surrender that they can do in their state

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00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:49,420
since the safe haven laws in every state.

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00:38:49,420 --> 00:38:53,060
But the boxes are in fire stations.

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00:38:53,060 --> 00:38:57,720
And they are they've taken the camera off that side of the building.

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00:38:57,720 --> 00:39:00,040
It's a complete anonymous safe surrender.

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00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:05,720
Mom walks up to the box, opens the door, places her baby in a climate controlled little tiny

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00:39:05,720 --> 00:39:07,960
bassinet inside.

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And then when she closes the door and the silent alarm has gone off, the baby is retrieved

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from inside the building.

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00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,880
Most babies are retrieved in under 90 seconds.

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And the babies are retrieved and sent right to an ER.

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00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:26,640
And we've had healthy babies be able to be adopted.

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00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:31,920
And I just I couldn't be more joy filled over the legacy of Amelia.

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00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:33,520
Yeah, that is amazing.

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00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:39,060
So you mentioned that you express the love of God in your community.

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00:39:39,060 --> 00:39:45,320
As you've done this, the world has taken notice, not just believers, but your work has opened

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00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:46,760
doors for you to talk to the media.

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00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:50,040
You say you talk to the media all the time.

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00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:54,720
Share some of your experiences with reporters, because we hear so much bad news, but your

495
00:39:54,720 --> 00:39:56,640
experience has been different.

496
00:39:56,640 --> 00:40:00,120
I mean, everybody's looking for answers and God has the answers.

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00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:04,520
And when we're able to present God's answers to the world, they take notice.

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00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:08,240
So share some of your experiences of how God's used your interviews.

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00:40:08,240 --> 00:40:13,240
I think that's so great to say because I think even Christians are so sick of the media and

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00:40:13,240 --> 00:40:16,800
they've just thrown them all into the bus and said, like, they're all terrible, this

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00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:17,800
is it's not effective.

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00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:23,960
But I have to say that I've not spent a dollar on education, but I've been in the media for

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00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:27,100
15 years talking about honor and dignity.

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00:40:27,100 --> 00:40:32,060
And I can talk about babies and adoption and coming around them at the grave where the

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00:40:32,060 --> 00:40:35,560
greatest miracle was performed and share the gospel.

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And every single media person who follows me around all the time, you know, hears the

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00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,760
gospel from me every single time.

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00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:44,920
Over and over again.

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00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,480
And you know, they never tell me to shut up, Jody.

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00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,860
No one's ever told me to close my Bible.

511
00:40:49,860 --> 00:40:54,120
And I know that God has been taken out of schools and churches and monuments are being

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00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:55,120
removed from parks.

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00:40:55,120 --> 00:41:00,500
But you know, the only place I believe that it is still sacred and OK to have a Bible

514
00:41:00,500 --> 00:41:02,580
as at the grave for a funeral.

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00:41:02,580 --> 00:41:03,720
Think about it.

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00:41:03,720 --> 00:41:07,680
Like no one ever tells you not to mention God at a funeral, right?

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00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:10,000
Whether you're in a building or I'm at the grave.

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00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:14,200
Like I like to do, you know, I live in Indiana, so my weather is what it is.

519
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:16,480
But if I have to use the chapel, I do.

520
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,040
But a lot of times we just do open grave.

521
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:24,120
And I love to stand at the grave because when we open, we invite the public.

522
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:27,440
People are coming to church and I say, you're coming to church without walls.

523
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:28,920
They don't know they're coming to church.

524
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:29,920
They think they're coming.

525
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:31,200
I mean, but you are you're here.

526
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:37,680
I'm holding my Bible open and I'm talking about God and everyone is all about it.

527
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:46,720
You know, and I one time had this one reporter, Julian, and he came with me a lot of places

528
00:41:46,720 --> 00:41:50,600
and I knew his heart and he just was so supportive.

529
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:55,440
And I felt the Lord that day give me conviction in my spirit.

530
00:41:55,440 --> 00:42:01,720
Like today you're going to say like every life matters and life begins at the point

531
00:42:01,720 --> 00:42:02,780
of conception.

532
00:42:02,780 --> 00:42:06,960
I hadn't said that out loud yet, like publicly in front of a camera.

533
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,840
I was like, oh, am I really going to say that today?

534
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:12,240
Because that's like a whole next level kind of thing, right?

535
00:42:12,240 --> 00:42:14,600
It's going to put me in a different arena.

536
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:18,340
And I said to him, this is what I'm going to say today.

537
00:42:18,340 --> 00:42:20,000
And I want you to air it.

538
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:23,800
It better not end up on the production editing floor.

539
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:24,800
Right.

540
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:30,920
And I said, because if you guys don't put this in my story, you won't be invited to

541
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:32,520
another funeral.

542
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:33,520
And so they did.

543
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:37,000
I mean, I just put it to them and they put it in.

544
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:41,960
And I've done so much work since then with Right to Life of Indiana and been able to

545
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:46,320
give testimony before the Senate and the House for a lot of different laws, whether adoption

546
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:52,280
laws or the abortion ban law, which the state of Indiana was the very first one to take

547
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:56,320
that on after Roe v. Wade was overturned.

548
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:57,640
And I was invited to the state house.

549
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:05,200
I pretty much lived there for two weeks and talked about how life matters.

550
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:09,600
And that's why I'm giving honor and dignity to babies that were hidden, you know, where

551
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:10,600
there's an injustice.

552
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:16,200
I'm bringing justice by putting like shining the light on their lives and babies that have

553
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:22,560
been cremated or left at the funeral homes or the coroner's office.

554
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:26,040
And they're just on a shelf in the basement because no one comes to claim them.

555
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,520
I'm like, no, no, no, no, bring them into the light.

556
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:29,520
I'm naming them.

557
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:31,640
I'm giving them a celebration of life.

558
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:34,280
They are going to have a lullaby sung over them.

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00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:38,640
They are going to be held by me and rocked and loved and known.

560
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:43,960
And when people come to the grave, I don't think they expect that they're going to feel

561
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:45,580
what they end up feeling.

562
00:43:45,580 --> 00:43:48,720
And that is when you give worth, you receive worth.

563
00:43:48,720 --> 00:43:52,080
And when you give dignity and honor, you receive dignity and honor.

564
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:58,480
And when you choose to come and put identity on a baby that was unclaimed and unnamed,

565
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:03,040
people I challenge them and say, I know your mortality is right in front of you because

566
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,320
you're sitting at a grave.

567
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:10,040
But please know that you have identity and you have purpose and there's something on

568
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:11,620
you from the Lord.

569
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What is it?

570
00:44:12,620 --> 00:44:14,080
What's your next assignment?

571
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,920
And I just go there with them.

572
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:23,120
And the media is very, very warm to my stories and to my mission.

573
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,380
And I am very, very thankful for that.

574
00:44:25,380 --> 00:44:31,840
And it has spread way beyond just, of course, Indiana doing a documentary about Amelia for

575
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:38,560
Russia because they had no safe haven law there and they have an epidemic number of

576
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,040
abandonments and they're wanting that changed.

577
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:45,740
And so they were talking about a different law there, you know, and it's like, it's just

578
00:44:45,740 --> 00:44:49,040
taking notice and people are, when I get on the phone with them, they're going to hear

579
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:50,040
about God.

580
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:54,480
And I've just had never any, not had people hang up on me, especially not the media.

581
00:44:54,480 --> 00:45:00,240
When we do what God has called us to do and we show the world his compassion and love,

582
00:45:00,240 --> 00:45:02,040
they're very, they're hungry for it.

583
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:03,040
They are.

584
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They're hungry for it.

585
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:08,160
And when you really believe that, you know, Jodi, like what you said, it's so simple,

586
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:14,560
but living like I really believe that is what's contagious, you know?

587
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:23,520
And I see a lot of people are so cynical because they've heard all the talking heads.

588
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:27,160
They've heard the people say all the things, but not do anything about it.

589
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:29,200
And I am not petting myself on the back.

590
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I'm just saying it, when I listen to young people, especially in schools or wherever

591
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I go speak and I'm like, why, why did you listen to me?

592
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:44,040
Why did you, like, I'm so surprised that even when you hear me tell them a story, you know?

593
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And they're like, because you're doing it.

594
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I want to do something.

595
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And I'm like, most people do.

596
00:45:52,180 --> 00:45:59,400
Most people want to be invited into the purposes and plans that God has for them because they

597
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,500
want to, they want to live on purpose too.

598
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You know, when people say to me, well, that's nice for you.

599
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You have a calling.

600
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And I'm like, please don't rip yourself off.

601
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:11,480
You have a calling too.

602
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:12,480
What's your yes?

603
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:17,320
Practice saying yes, and God's going to start, you're going to start earning the right for

604
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:21,880
the next two pound weight, five pound weight, 10 pound weight, 20 pound weight.

605
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:27,680
And when God asked me to write my book, that was a huge yes for me, a huge commitment.

606
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And I didn't know if I had it in me to do.

607
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And the Lord supplied, you know?

608
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:40,480
And then in 2020, I got a phone call about a baby that was critically ill in the NICU

609
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,280
at our children's hospital.

610
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And they were like, could you come down?

611
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:48,440
And like, we need, we need someone's help because we've put this baby's adoption out

612
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:51,680
there everywhere in the country and no one's calling.

613
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,960
I'm like, okay, no one else is calling.

614
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You've called me.

615
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I'm coming down.

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What word, what do you have for me?

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The last thing I thought he was going to have for me was to adopt a baby in the, in the

618
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NICU down at the children's hospital that was seven days old and suffering from the

619
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,640
mother's drug addiction.

620
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And they said, this baby's suffering and would you become her guardian and then listen to

621
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:22,000
us talk about what we need to do next for her?

622
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:24,480
And I said, yes.

623
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:29,200
And then I, I listened and I realized, oh, what they were really asking me to do was

624
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:32,720
to take her off life support.

625
00:47:32,720 --> 00:47:38,320
And so I called my husband and I said, this is what the Lord's asked me to do tomorrow.

626
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Like I've got to can't, we had all these plans cause we had people in town for a conference

627
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:43,200
at church, all this stuff going on.

628
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I was like, I got to cancel everything and be down here for this baby that has no name.

629
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So I named her Amelia or Abigail.

630
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She's an Abigail.

631
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And my husband said, you're not going alone.

632
00:47:55,320 --> 00:48:01,120
And so together we stayed with her and we baptized her and anointed her with oil and

633
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:05,320
dressed her in a beautiful garment and saying over her and called her by name and prayed

634
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:09,080
over her and spent the day with her.

635
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And then she died in my arms.

636
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And I never thought that when I turned 60 that year, we were going to adopt a baby.

637
00:48:17,020 --> 00:48:21,720
And then three months later, you know, the attorney calls and says, do you want to posthumously

638
00:48:21,720 --> 00:48:22,720
adopt her?

639
00:48:22,720 --> 00:48:25,520
And I said, I don't even know what that word means.

640
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:27,760
And he said, well, you're her legal guardian.

641
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You can become her legal mom.

642
00:48:30,540 --> 00:48:35,640
And so Abigail Elise Zanaco is our adopted daughter.

643
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She's our fifth child.

644
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:42,720
And she is at Washington Park East Cemetery buried among 45 other babies, but she's the

645
00:48:42,720 --> 00:48:45,120
only one with our name.

646
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:48,320
And we've learned a lot about her.

647
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:55,520
And when I was at the state house giving all kinds of testimony for babies with fetal anomaly

648
00:48:55,520 --> 00:49:00,840
and I mean, she had no brain because of her mother's drug addiction, she wasn't worthy,

649
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:03,840
according to the world of being born.

650
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And yet she changed our lives forever.

651
00:49:06,720 --> 00:49:10,440
And I loved that baby so much.

652
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:16,560
And in 48 hours, she became ours and mine.

653
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:21,720
And I love carrying her legacy and being her voice.

654
00:49:21,720 --> 00:49:24,300
And that's all I have from her now.

655
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But it's everything.

656
00:49:26,240 --> 00:49:29,040
And that was a huge yes for me.

657
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And I do it all over again.

658
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:35,680
So Linda, as you look back over your life, what are some of those key truths that have

659
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:40,400
guided you through the bad times and through the good times that have kept you grounded?

660
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The main thing would be the promises of God.

661
00:49:44,260 --> 00:49:50,880
If you looked at my Bible, wherever it says, I will, he will, he does, I circle it.

662
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:55,400
Because he is a God of promises and he keeps his promises.

663
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:58,040
And I cling to his promises.

664
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:03,800
I cling to the truth of Revelation 19 10 that says worship God for the testimony of Jesus

665
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,480
is the spirit of prophecy.

666
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:11,280
That if I live my life worshiping him and giving it back to him, and then just share

667
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:20,440
the testimony of Jesus, which is everywhere, the results are up to him and not me.

668
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:22,280
And so I can live free.

669
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:25,860
And I can just do what God calls me to do and let him do the rest.

670
00:50:25,860 --> 00:50:29,640
And that's really lightens the burden.

671
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:34,920
But also, Debbie Williams has a book called praying on purpose.

672
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:37,560
And it's the ABCs of God's names.

673
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:44,460
And I've memorized, I memorized A through Z of his name.

674
00:50:44,460 --> 00:50:50,120
And then I've added over the years to it, I think I have 80 names of God from his word.

675
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:56,960
And I recite them, honestly, every single day in prayer to myself, or when someone,

676
00:50:56,960 --> 00:51:01,720
I'm at the cleaners the other day and this mom starts sharing me that her son was murdered

677
00:51:01,720 --> 00:51:06,320
four years ago and shot downtown.

678
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:08,920
They have no suspect in how she's living with that injustice.

679
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:12,400
And I'm just like, oh my gosh, I need to pray for her.

680
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:14,960
I'm thinking, what do I pray?

681
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:19,760
And I thought, I just start praying the character of God and his names all over her.

682
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:23,440
Like those are his promises, it's who he is.

683
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:28,480
And she just said, I started feeling everything you said, I started feeling stronger and stronger.

684
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:31,760
And I was like, right, because we are weak, he is strong.

685
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:35,680
I know that sounds so simple, but it's so true.

686
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:43,520
And if I can lean on him for being the deliverer and being eternal and being faithful and being

687
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:48,120
the King and Lord of Lords and the light of the world, right, and he's the rescuer and

688
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:52,240
the provider and he's Yahweh and he's zealous for me.

689
00:51:52,240 --> 00:51:56,680
It just takes me from where I am and lifts me higher.

690
00:51:56,680 --> 00:52:03,160
And it also gets my eyes off my circumstances and puts them on him.

691
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:04,160
And that is everything.

692
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:05,920
Well, that's so good.

693
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:11,200
As we close, Linda, would you share about a woman of the Bible who's inspired or encouraged

694
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:12,400
or taught you something?

695
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:14,680
I absolutely love Esther.

696
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:16,200
I go back to her all the time.

697
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:23,360
I feel like she modeled for me what it's like to be a woman in our generation who is being

698
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:25,840
called to save something, right?

699
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,180
She was called to save her people.

700
00:52:28,180 --> 00:52:30,960
It was a mighty calling she had on her.

701
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:36,720
And I love to think about her entering the threshold of the throne room where the king

702
00:52:36,720 --> 00:52:42,560
sat and the guards warned her, don't go in there, like you could lose your life.

703
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:45,560
You weren't invited, right?

704
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:49,560
And she's like, what did she say to those guards to get them to open that door?

705
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:50,560
I would love to know.

706
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:56,480
But in she goes, and the king just extends the grace of his scepter to her and she enters

707
00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:57,540
in.

708
00:52:57,540 --> 00:53:04,600
And I think we have that boldness before the throne of grace with Jesus and the access

709
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:06,100
has been granted.

710
00:53:06,100 --> 00:53:10,160
We just have to knock on the door and go in.

711
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:13,600
And her courage and boldness speaks to me a lot.

712
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:19,440
Her choice to be a woman of her generation who thought like I think all the time, not

713
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:26,160
on my watch is this baby that I now know about going to not have a name.

714
00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:27,600
No way.

715
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:31,680
And it just spurs me on to say, I know what the next thing is.

716
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:38,080
And I am a woman who like her, I think, you know, just hates injustice.

717
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:39,080
I hate it.

718
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:44,120
You've mentioned so many, so many good things that we can all ponder.

719
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,480
But I just want to touch back on Isaiah.

720
00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:47,480
You read about Isaiah a lot.

721
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:51,560
And you know, the prophet Isaiah had an encounter with the Lord that changed him.

722
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:56,400
Isaiah 6:5-7 seven in the New Living New International Version reads,

723
00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:58,360
Woe to me, Isaiah cried.

724
00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:04,020
I am ruined for I am a man of unclean lips and I live among the people of unclean lips

725
00:54:04,020 --> 00:54:07,940
and my eyes have seen the king, the Lord Almighty.

726
00:54:07,940 --> 00:54:12,160
Then one of the seraphim flew to me with a live coal in his hand, which he had taken

727
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:13,700
with tongs from the altar.

728
00:54:13,700 --> 00:54:18,120
With it, he touched my mouth and said, See, this has touched your lips.

729
00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:22,480
Your guilt is taken away and your sin is atoned for.

730
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:26,040
Isaiah knew he wasn't worthy to represent God in and of himself.

731
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:28,320
And boy, do we feel that all the time, right?

732
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:33,720
Satan will heap all kinds of thoughts on us about our unworthiness.

733
00:54:33,720 --> 00:54:39,200
But when the seraphim of God touched Isaiah, God made him clean and changed his identity

734
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:42,240
from unworthy to worthy.

735
00:54:42,240 --> 00:54:47,320
In verses eight and nine, Isaiah hears the call of God and responds and NIV reads, Then

736
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:52,560
I heard the voice of the Lord saying, whom shall I send and who will go for me for us?

737
00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:53,960
And I said, here I am.

738
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:54,960
Send me.

739
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:57,280
Well, it's a similar story to you, Linda.

740
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:01,880
You encountered God, you received a new identity and you've been responding to his call ever

741
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:03,880
since.

742
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:06,200
You have come to know God at a whole new level.

743
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:12,960
You have seen his amazing work and all of us have that same opportunity.

744
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:17,880
When we encounter God, he says we are worthy.

745
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:22,520
So have you, dear listener, have you have that kind of encounter with God?

746
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:25,800
If not, he's eagerly waiting for you.

747
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:30,600
He's calling you and he's waiting for you to respond to Linda.

748
00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:32,520
Would you take a moment, pray for our listeners?

749
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:33,520
Yes.

750
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:38,720
It makes me think of Hebrews 315 where it says, today, if you hear his voice, do not

751
00:55:38,720 --> 00:55:40,360
harden your heart.

752
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:47,080
And so God, I pray that for the listeners of Jody's podcast and for Jody and I, that

753
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:50,560
we would believe again that you still speak.

754
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,280
You speak through your word.

755
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:54,200
You speak to us through your spirit.

756
00:55:54,200 --> 00:56:01,520
And so God, we hold our hands open wide and surrender to you our lives and say, we want

757
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:02,960
an assignment from you.

758
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:05,760
I want a fresh assignment every day.

759
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:11,840
I want to know that the plans and purposes of you, God Almighty, are on me and on Jody

760
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:17,040
and on all of her listeners, that everyone would have confidence today that they have

761
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:23,080
an identity and they are known by God and that they are sitting there with a title of

762
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:26,800
honor on them from the creator himself.

763
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:28,800
Thank you, God, for that.

764
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:29,800
Thank you.

765
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:35,240
And so open our ears to hear you, open our eyes to see you, move in our hands and our

766
00:56:35,240 --> 00:56:41,600
feet to do your work and partner with you so that we can bring the kingdom right here,

767
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:47,840
right now in our neighborhoods, in our jobs, in our churches, in our schools, Lord, so

768
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:50,280
that we can see you mightily working.

769
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:51,720
Let us not be afraid.

770
00:56:51,720 --> 00:56:58,640
God, take away a spirit of fear or comparison or jealousy or competitiveness in the body

771
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:02,440
so that we can be free to be who we are in you.

772
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:09,720
Lord, thank you that your word assures us that you are with us wherever we go.

773
00:57:09,720 --> 00:57:15,880
Your favor rests upon every listener today and that they would close their eyes maybe

774
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:21,520
right now, open their hands and say, I surrender a fresh to you, Lord Jesus.

775
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:28,520
Make me into something you want me to be and let it be even totally different than what

776
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:30,320
it was yesterday.

777
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,720
I am open to you and I give you my life.

778
00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:40,520
God, you are the king of the universe and as your children, as the sons and daughters

779
00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:45,840
adopted into the kingdom, we are grateful and we say we love you.

780
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:48,600
In Jesus' name, amen.

781
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:49,840
Amen.

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00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:54,760
If you've not heard, the Somebody Cares Widows and Orphan Fund was developed to help widows

783
00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:58,120
as well as unaccompanied children who have special needs.

784
00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:03,760
James 127 tells us that pure and undefiled religion in the sight of God, the Father,

785
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:07,400
means caring for the orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world

786
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:08,680
corrupt you.

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00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:13,680
You can do that in part by joining the growing company of others who give to the widow and

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00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:14,680
orphan fund.

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Together, we can be a tangible expression of God's love to those with special needs.

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If you haven't joined us yet, would you consider giving a special gift to help?

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Just go to hergodstory.org and click on the Widow and Orphan tab at the top of the page.

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And thank you for tuning in.

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Check out the show notes at hergodstory.org for scriptures, links, and other information

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And now, dear friends, I leave you with a blessing adapted from 1 Chronicles 22-11.

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May the Lord be with you, and may you have success and complete the work the Lord your

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God has called you to.

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