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I am Liz Wright. Welcome to Live Your Best Life. The only thing that matters now is living
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by the power of this wonderful new creation life. We're going to become an undefeatable
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force of radiating glory and we are rising up strong now in this hour.
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Hi family, thank you for tuning in to this week's episode of Live Your Best Life with
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Milla's Wright and I honestly am so excited. I've been so looking forward to today's conversation.
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My special guest joining me is the publishing executive or in a publishing executive at
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Destiny Image Publishing. He's also the host I should say. I'm jumping ahead on myself
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there. He's the host of Sean Tabbitt Show. He's also co-author now of literally one
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of the most outstanding books I think I've ever read. It's called Near Death Experiences,
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101 stories that help us understand heaven, hell and the afterlife. And honestly, I could
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not put the book down. It's so interesting. The content in there is so faith enhancing
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and just compelling. Anyway, you're going to hear more from my special guest joining
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me today who is the co-author of the book. As I said, Sean Tabbitt, Sean, welcome.
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Well, Liz, thank you so much for inviting me to your podcast and for all of your kind
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words about the book. This is a book that was birthed out of an interesting and difficult
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time in my life. And so it's just, it's been fun to get reports of how it's touched people
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and just how it's been impacting people. So I always appreciate any level of feedback.
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So thank you for that kindness. I just love it. I mean, it's clearly, it's
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obvious to me that in writing it, you, you seriously do have a mission. Like you really
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do want to bring comfort and through uncertainty through trying to help us gain an understanding
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of what happens when we leave this earth, right? And that was the thing that came across
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to me as I was reading it. It was just hope, hope, hope. There's a ton of evidence out
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there now, guys. Hope, hope. And the stories that you share is like, oh my gosh, I have
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to talk to this man. So tell me just in beginning, just how did you end up working on the research
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and putting that book together? Because it's such a brilliant and fascinating subject.
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I thought everyone has a journey, don't they? So what was a bit of your journey? How did
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you end up writing it? Yeah, I kind of haphazardly fell into the near death experiences space.
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The first two books I read were John Burke's book, Imagine Heaven, which almost everybody
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in our circles have, they've read that one. And then I had worked with Randy on his book,
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Dynamite Jesus. And as Providence would have it, we did a podcast interview about that
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book about three and a half years ago, and it went viral. And then we just started doing
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content of him and me interviewing other people who'd had these near death experiences.
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And that was really in the midst of the turmoil with the lockdowns and church closures and
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COVID and everything crazy that was going on. And all of a sudden, we sort of fell into
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this space where we started getting testimonies of people saying, I watched your interview
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with so and so, and I've been distant from the Lord and I've rededicated my life, or
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I watched this interview with that person. And I got healed during, we're just watching
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the interview. And so we just started getting hundreds and hundreds of testimonies through
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Randy's ministry of, you know, people just watching an interview and their lives being
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transformed. Now, I've been interviewing people for 10 years, Randy's done tons of content
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through the years as an author. And we'd never been in this space where we saw the Holy Spirit
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drop on something so significantly. And it wasn't anything, we were just using the skill
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sets we've used for years. And so that's really how we fell into this space of putting out
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these books about the near death experiences because of what we saw God doing in the midst
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of our YouTube videos and our podcasts. Yeah, so you could see that it was really,
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really needed information. It was the right time, wasn't it, for this message to come
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out. And it impacted me as well, how you were sharing how there are many, many thousands
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more people that have actually had these experiences then have been willing to previously share,
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you know, for perhaps fear of being seen as a religious extremist or whatever, whatever,
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you know, do you mean the negative potential negative impact of people coming and sharing
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these stories. But now so many people are, it's like God's up to something big, you
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know, and it's really restoring hope. Okay, I want to dive into some of the research,
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some of your findings, which is just fantastic content. So questions that I can ask you that
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I know people you guys out there would probably want to ask as well. So number one, what happens
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in your experience having interviewed hundreds of people, probably more than hundreds of
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people, but certainly for the book, you've got 101 selected testimonies from people you've
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interviewed. What have you found that has that happens at the point we die at the point
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we leave our bodies?
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That would tip in terms of the verbiage or the language that we would use. And that that
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I'll just go in a little bit of a side trail hormone. That's one of the things we really
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hope to do with this book is give people vocabulary around how to effectively discuss the afterlife
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and also give them a framework because that's that's really lacked in near death experience
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books in the Christian space. But typically when somebody is entering into a near death
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experience, they've had some kind of a catastrophic accident or some kind of a health event, an
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emergency of sorts, and they enter into what we would typically refer to as an out of body
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experience where their spirit is leaving their body. What that feels like for different
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people, some people will say that they feel like their spirits being pulled out of their
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body. I think when Randy shares his story, he talks about how it felt like his spirit
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like left his stomach of all things. Other people will describe they all of a sudden
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are kind of confused. They don't even realize they're out of their body. Jim Woodford's
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account where he is, he drives out to check on a field that he was about to sell on his
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property and he dies in his truck and he he all of a sudden is like, man, I haven't felt
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this good in years. Oh my gosh, like I've been so sick for so many years and he walks
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out into his field and is looking around and he turns around and he he sees a guy sitting
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in his truck and he's like, what the heck? Why? Why is there he's like, he's getting
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angry. He's like, there's a man sitting in my truck and so he starts moving back in that
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direction. And suddenly he realized it's him sitting in his truck and he's dead. And so
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you know, people often have this temporary timeframe where they actually are inner kind
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of interacting with their day to day environment where they'll try to turn on the light switch
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or touch a wall or what have you and their hands go through things. So it's often a period
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of initial disorientation as they enter into that out of body experience. And usually that
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proceeds with a floating upwards heading towards a light that sort of a thing. But that initial
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out of body experience varies from person to person. But a lot of times has a few of
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those consistent markers of the disorientation and a little bit of time to interact with
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the environment.
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Gosh, it's fascinating, isn't it? And then the other thing that I thought was just incredible
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was how you've been able through the research to identify nine specific things that seem
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to be consistent across everybody's testimonies, even though everybody's testimony is unique
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and specific and profound for them, because each person clearly has come back having had
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this experience. But there are nine consistent pieces that happen in the story to everybody.
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Can you go there? Can you share with us what you found? Because I was reading this going,
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whoa, my God.
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I don't think I have a list of nine in my notes in front of me. But let me talk through
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that too. Like again, that's one of the things that just it hasn't existed in the Christian
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space for these sorts of books. A lot of times we'll share people's testimonies and their
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stories. But we don't have a framework, which I feel like empowers people to talk about
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these, to tell a story. The framework also really helps people who've had these sorts
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of experiences process them on the more mainstream secular side of this publishing space. There's
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a lot of different frameworks. And so in the research, we looked at a bunch of different
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frameworks and just tried to break them down into something a little more concise. We'll
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see how many of them I can remember off the top of my head. But it effectively is going
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through each of the steps. So we started out talking about like, how does somebody cross
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that threshold? You know, what does that look like? Again, as we talked about earlier, that
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accident, that catastrophic health event, whatever that might be, typically past that you're
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entering into some kind of an out of body experience, you might have a very minimal
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amount of time to interact with the environment that you're in. Sometimes people, they just
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start rising out of their body instantaneously. Past that point, you're often going towards
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some kind of a bright light, you know, be it a portal or it's usually round, interestingly
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enough, some people will describe doors, but typically some kind of a bright light. Once
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they rise into that bright light, there's usually some kind of a threshold. Some people
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talk about they'll get in this space that looks like it's kind of between heaven and
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hell, like they'll look one direction and it's kind of stark and the grass is parched
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and there's usually a pit and smoke and other things and they look to the other side and
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it just looks more of a heavenly landscape. The grasses green things look a lot nicer.
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If it's not that kind of in between space, other people will talk about coming to a gate
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that's very typical where somebody will came to the gate of heaven or some kind of a gate.
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Often with that, people who aren't staying in heaven, they're going to go back. They're
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not allowed to go past that gate. Other people, even though they don't stay, they're taken
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on a tour of heaven. So they do get to go past the gate, how God works out, who gets
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the tour and who just goes home. I haven't quite been able to figure that out yet.
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We also look at people meeting different kind of supernatural beings, be it angels or encountering
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different members of the Trinity. Not as many encounters with the Holy Spirit in the near
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death experience stories, but very typical that somebody would either encounter Jesus
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or the Father. A lot of times what that encounter looks like is very much tied to how they need
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to experience God. So somebody who doesn't have a good relationship with their father,
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father issues, problems at home, they'll encounter God the Father and maybe like a child be sitting
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in God's lap, interestingly enough. And so just really filling that need. A lot of times
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the encounters with Jesus can, it's either one of two things. It seems like almost like
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a big brother kind of experience or just you are just pressed to the floor in Jesus's amazing,
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glorious presence. So yeah, we've got heavenly landscapes, you know, all kinds of different
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buildings and structures. Probably one of the ones that has had the biggest impact on
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people from some of the previous books we've done and some of the ministry events that
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we've done. There is this common thread of people who see some kind of a nursery in heaven.
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And it kind of varies what the structure looks like and what the kids are doing. But I know
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at least four or five near death experiences where they saw a nursery in heaven where all
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the lost and aborted children, kids who died before their time go. And so that's been a
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consistent theme. There's another testimony of a gentleman who talks about how not only
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did he see kind of that nursery or that place where these children go, he also saw parents
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arriving in heaven, getting to encounter their children in like the stages that they needed
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to see them because they didn't see them grow up. And so that that is consistent in a lot
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of testimonies. And I've even had the opportunity to see that shared from a stage at a ministry
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event and just talk to some of the different people in the audience after the fact is people
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were done praying with some of the speakers and such. And that testimony alone was life
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changing for people who'd lost children just to hear that and to pray through that. People
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see mansions in heaven, all when Matthew's as a gentleman, we talk about his story in
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the book, and he doesn't see his own personal mansion. He he's taken to the city that has
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what he called sort of mansions for like churches and ministries. And so you're seeing like the
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somehow structurally the impact of what his his ministry and his church had on earth thus
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far, almost like it was kind of it was very unique because a lot of times people will
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have a life review, which is another one of the stages where God will show them the different
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stages, different stages of their life and how he showed up and maybe even experience
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how they'd heard other people and go through those sorts of things. Alwin actually in in
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encountering this this mansion saw basically a life review for their church and their ministry
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and their effectiveness and where they kind of fell short. And that sort of a thing. So
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all that to say, there's a lot of variability. People meet a welcoming committee. Often,
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probably 80 to 90% of time, it's people you would know. So like your grandparents, a lost
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parent or sibling or friend. So as you kind of get to that crossing that gate entering
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into heaven, you'll see people that you know. Gosh, I think I'm remembering all about almost
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all these very impressed animals in heaven. It is another concept that comes up. Randy
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and I joke about it because I'm like, I don't think there's cats in heaven. But because
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people usually like horses have come up. People often talk about meeting their lost dogs in
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heaven. You know, people see lions and other animals in heaven. So that's another consistent
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theme. And then there's just the kind of what I call reentry, where, you know, you're, you're
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told you're going back or you start kind of reversing and heading back down the tunnel,
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if you will. Some of those are peaceful. Some of those are jarring. I think Heidi Barr talks
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about how when she was put back in her body, it was like her spirit didn't fit anymore.
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After being in heaven, and it felt kind of chaotic and reentering her body. And then
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past the reentry, I think the last stage is just the ongoing effects. You don't have
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a near death experience without being dramatically impacted. You know, some people have only
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hell experiences. Some people have both a hell experience and then a heaven experience.
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And so the impact varies. But on average, it takes somebody about seven years to wrestle
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with what they encountered. I often like to think of it as our physical minds can't deal
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with just the grandeur of everything that they, they encountered in heaven, but it takes about
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seven years to really come to terms and process. There's ongoing revelation. I have different
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authors I've worked with where they saw something in heaven 15 years ago. And for whatever reason,
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the Holy Spirit didn't reveal what it meant until a year ago or, or that sort of a thing.
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So yeah, I think, I think that's most of the stages. Thank you for that challenge. Someday
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I'll have that in my notes on the screen above here. But yeah, so again, it's just that framework.
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I feel like it gives people structure to talk about and process these stories. And again,
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something that I've felt is really lacking in our Christian space for these sorts of books.
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Yeah. And it gives so much hope. And I love the fact that you're looking at it all and
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you're then looking at the scriptures and you're trying to find the compatibility between the
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stories and the Word of God and have done so successfully. I love what you said. Because
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that was one of my questions to you as was, have you seen how profoundly it's impacted
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the people that you've interviewed? I mean, are their lives dramatically changed because
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of the experience? Do you find that's consistent? Yeah, absolutely. A lot of people end up in
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ministry. Yeah, that's interesting. Which if it was imagination, you wouldn't have that
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kind of transformed life, would you? So, right. Well, and I think the difficult thing is people
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don't realize the not the risk, but a lot of these experiences, these are sacred experiences
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with God and like it's one of their most precious things. So to share it publicly is almost
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painful because they feel a real heaviness and a weight of not wanting to taint the experience,
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not wanting to share it improperly, that sort of a thing. People go undergo dramatic personality
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shifts. Randy Kay, I've heard his testimony 50 plus times just because of all the work
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we've done together. He's actually in an earlier part of his career was a corporate trainer
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and they would do these four quadrant assessments about personality and varying things. And what's
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really fascinating about his journey is earlier, he did not rank as empathetic. Wherever that
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point, whatever quadrant that fill in, he was not an empathetic, super kind guy. And
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I can say Randy is one of the nicest, most kind men I've ever met in my entire life.
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He did that same evaluation on himself in the midst of doing some training at some point
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after his near death experience. And he actually ranked completely differently than he did
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before the experience. So he all of a sudden ranked in a quadrant that said he was empathetic
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and just very kind and personable. And so, not can't quite say it's scientific proof,
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but his personality shifted that dramatically. A lot of people, some of them were not believers
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before the experience and in the midst of the experience, they become believers or shortly
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thereafter. A lot of the folks who have near death experiences become very hardcore sold
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out evangelists where their primary concern is, do you know Jesus? There are people who
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wake up in the hospital from their near death experience and the nurse or whoever they encounter
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first, they'll be like, ma'am, I just need to ask you, have you encountered Jesus? Do
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you know Jesus as your Lord and Savior, that sort of thing? So just a real burden for the
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gospel. Now, that's not to say everybody has those experience. Some people who have more
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of a hell experience or disturbing NDE kind of experience, they will deal with some level
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of PTSD or it can be difficult. So not all of the experiences are always positive. I
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think a lot of that though can vary by the worldview of the person. And so not all NDE
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books are created equal. Like if you're reading books that are more of the Christian space,
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they're going to be more scripture honoring and maybe even gospel oriented. But if you
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read more broadly, you know, there's new age stuff and a lot of different perspectives.
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And this was something I didn't even realize falling into this space. You know, I just
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encountered Christian books in this space because I work in Christian publishing. And
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as we interviewed other people and I started reading more widely, I was amazed at kind
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of the some of the pitfalls and other materials that is that are in this space, you know,
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interesting to understand how people process and what they think about their experiences.
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But it's not everything in the spaces is God honoring or maybe even helpful to read. So
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there's a lot of different levels of material out there.
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Yeah. So I mean, your book is a very welcome and needed contribution, I think, because
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it's I mean, you've clearly done an enormous amount of research and you've waded through
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lots and lots and lots of different testimonies, you know, and you've been very clearly very
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careful to make sure that what you're communicating in the book is authentic. These are authentic
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stories that where their lives, like you say, have dramatically changed. I love as well
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how you say in the book that people describe when they go into heaven, it's a place of
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overwhelming love. Right.
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Yeah. That's really massively impacted people and they and how many of them meet Jesus as
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well.
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Yeah. What's fascinating about when people talk about love, they talk about that love
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and light are the two things that they see permeate everything in heaven. It's in the
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it's in the grass, it's in the trees, what it's it's in the water, what everything they
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encounter just permeates light. Even even the animals, Jim Woodford's in his story, horses
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have always been an important part of his life and he encounters horses in heaven and
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he reaches out and touches one of the horses and his hand kind of goes into it. And as
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he pulls his hand back, like there are aspects of light that are radiating out from the horse.
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So everything in heaven reflects the love and the glory of God to to a degree that people
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can't help but be transformed in the midst of that experience. And so yeah, that that
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is another consistent theme, the light and the love, even music and singing. I've had
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different people talk about how it's almost like the grass sings, the trees sing, everything
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they encounter. It's almost like they're singing praises to God. And so yeah, just everything
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praise, light, love, it's all there.
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Amazing. And your wife, she experienced this as well, didn't she? I was very moved that
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you included that in the book. Will you share with us what happened to your wife?
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Yeah, well, my wife, my wife's actually still with us. We're in the latter stages of her
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of her hospice journey. But what's been interesting, and I feel like this was a real divine setup.
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We didn't know my wife was going to be diagnosed with cancer 16 months ago. And yet I'd been
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on this journey for a couple of years, meeting and interviewing all these people who've been
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to heaven. And so we've had so many great productive conversations as we've just been
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grieving and processing and walking this journey out. And so I feel like on the one hand, God
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was preparing me to be able to minister to my wife as she's been going through her cancer
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journey. But actually she had two different experiences. And I don't share about these
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specifically in the book. I don't think I'd have to go back and check that part. But there
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was one night, I'm pretty sure that my wife had what I would call an out of body experience,
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just based on what she described, seeing in the room and almost like she was seeing me
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from above sort of a thing. And then another thing that happened is she had this open vision
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of meeting her welcoming committee in heaven. And this was probably about four or five months
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ago that she had this experience where she just had this very detailed open vision of
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encountering her, her father and her grandparents and her brother who are who have all all gone
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home to heaven previously. And so, you know, I would say just from being able to walk this
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journey out in hope and confidence and just being able to minister to her, having met
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all these people who've been to heaven and just really having a deep understanding at
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least of the process that people have gone through when they've died and cross that threshold.
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It's just been an amazing tool to, you know, just walk this out and just have great conversations
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and you know, we're grieving and it's difficult. But at the same time, because of this immersion
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in this heaven space, we just have this great hope. And this is what I hope long term is
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Randy and I do more books in our space because, you know, in a charismatic ministry space,
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we believe in healing, we pray for healing, we've seen people healed, but sometimes people
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don't get healed and sometimes it's time for them to go home to heaven. And so, long term,
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as we do more content in this space, we just really hope that these sorts of testimonies
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and these sorts of conversations can just help us to have more of a comfort and maybe
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build a theology around just a solid worldview around dying in heaven and the afterlife.
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And you know, yes, I think we should always go after healing and pray and we're going
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to see that sometimes. But when we don't, we need to just embrace that hope of heaven
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and know that it's a real place and our Savior is waiting for us to take us home. So just
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this immersion in this space has just been a real blessing to our family in these last
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16 months.
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Absolutely. And to countless numbers of people who are going to read the book and also the
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books that you've already put out there in your podcast, they're amazing because people
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do need to know, they really do need hope, hey, that there is, this is one chapter of
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life that goes on and he really is real. You know, I was, I was just remembering when you
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were speaking then, it when my mom passed into glory, I of course was in tremendous grief
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because she died suddenly. And the six days after she went home to be with the Lord, I
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went into an open vision. I was worshiping in the car, went into an open vision and I
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saw the moment that she went into heaven and I saw her in the meadow. And then I saw my
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grandpa walking to meet her as part of the welcoming committee. Now, in my understanding
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at that time, I wouldn't have scripted it that way. I would have had other members of
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the family meeting her, you know, for various reasons. But anyway, but it wasn't and I watched
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this beautiful moment and I heard through Holy Spirit inside me, I heard my mom speak
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and she said, I'm young and I'm free, live your life to the full. And then all the, as
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I saw this, Holy Spirit lifted all the grief off me. And I literally went into just such
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gratitude and joy that she was there and she was happy and she was free and she wasn't
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sick anymore, you know. And then a few days later, I received a card from a friend of
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mine who'd been in New York airport and had heard my mom had passed and she wrote me just
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an encouraging card to say she was praying for me. And in the card, it said, Liz, your
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mom is in the meadow in heaven. She's young and she's free, live your life to the full.
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So just what a treasure. It's all real, hey.
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One comment, just to piggyback off the comment of her being young, that's another interesting
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aspect in terms of seeing other people and encountering other people in heaven. People
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seem to be the age of about 25 to 30. I don't know why that is, but that's another consistent
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theme where the loved ones they encounter, the people they encounter that have already
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gone to heaven before them, they look to be about what they look like in permaise 25 to
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30.
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Yeah, mom, I said the same thing. Mom looked about 30. She was just gorgeous, like living
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her best life literally. But oh my gosh, it's brilliant talking to you. I'm so excited that
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this book's out and it's just, yeah, it's going to get all across the nations of the
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earth. I have no doubt because it's time for this kind of hope. Thank you for coming on
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and sharing all this amazing research. It's really good to talk to you.
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Truly my pleasure. Randy's in my heart is that this book just goes around the world
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and it gives people a framework to process their own near-death experience if they have
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one. And if they are passionate about sharing these stories, that it really just gives them
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a structure to be able to effectively communicate these stories to others. Because as you said,
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these stories give people a lot of hope for what's going to happen when they cross over
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into the afterlife. And that's an appointment all of us have at some point in the future.
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Yeah, absolutely. And I do believe that it is intentional on the Lord's part. He's sending
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these people back with powerful testimony that gives us a glimpse, hey, of what's ahead.
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So thank you so much. And guys, thank you for joining us for today. It's a bit different,
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but extremely powerful conversation. Have the most amazing week so full of renewed hope
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and faith and every need met through his riches in glory. He's a very big God, hey, have an
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amazing, amazing week and look forward to being with you again next week. God bless.
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As we consecrate ourselves, giving all that we are to Jesus, we will experience his love.
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We will experience freedom. The more we lean into him, the more we surrender, the more
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power comes through us. God's going to encounter you.